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"Garry Curtis is a solider, whom some might say is of misfortune,
rather that the opposite. Yet, he is a man, who has lived not one
but several lives in an existence of remarkable colour and
variance. His story is frank and heartfelt, expressed in a street
language that he knows intimately. From his earliest childhood
memories to the career direction that shaped his livelihood, he
expresses his emotions with intensity and sparkling wit. He has
been in the front-line. He has worked behind the scenes. However,
Garry is never the less that forthright and unafraid of pertinent
invective. This superbly well-expressed work is both dramatic and
tragic. It deals with with life and death in equal measure and
displays and energy that will fill you with laughter and hope."
Garry is a rare breed of man, he is a man of high standards and for
the most part a decent, caring lad who always looking out for those
around him. A once promising boxer, a former Royal Marines
commando, an elite firefighter in the fire rescue unit in London
and for a couple of decades as close protection and a hostile
environment consultant has been constantly putting himself in harms
way to look after those persons he has been given the privilege to
look after, as well as looking after others that have been in a bad
place during some kind of attack. Many lives saved also much death
around him. A family man, a father of four beautiful, adoring
children and his world is his grandson Ralph Garry has been asked
by so many people over the years to write a book and always pushed
it to one side. However, after a breathtaking daring escape whilst
held against his will in Libya 2011 by colonel Gaddaffis loyalist
gunmen, not only had Garry successfully escaped with the ITN media
team, he then returned to carry out what could have been a daring
rescue. A chain reaction of bad luck followed and lies as well as
embarrassment from an individual caused Garry's world to come
crashing down around him. During a four year period the man that so
many had entrusted their lives run out of fight and almost
succumbed to death not only from injury in Afghanistan, which led
to four huge surgeries where he contracted blood poisoning, also
the darkest place he has been his own war. Surprisingly or not
surprisingly, once you read what he has been through he almost died
at his own hand an attempted suicide. Then the love of his life
along with the dramas from a former lover in Ukraine. Garry's world
comes crashing down. The pride of this man was so great and the
financial ruin caused by just a very few and what he describes as
his perfect storm, the culmination of all this, wreaked havoc and
the trigger for Garry to step down that dark road. Garry being
Garry is back stronger than ever and rebuilding his life. This is
the powerful no warts brutal truth of a sometimes larger than life
ordinary down to earth guy some call a hero. Garry would always say
I am not a hero it's just a job, it's just me, I love my job. Gary
supports mental health charities such as Rock2Recovery a charity
set up to support men, women and families of the armed forces. Also
the London Air Ambulance as they flew Garry to Hospital when he
tried to commit suicide. Proceeds from "incoming" will go towards
helping these charities help people all over the U.K.
A guide to making worry work for you, helping you to avoid stress
and anxiety. The author sets out to teach how to understand fear
and face the possibilities of life calmly.
Traumatic events are common, and range from road traffic accidents,
through rape and sexual abuse, to disaster and war. While many
people deal effectively with these experiences, a minority have
severe problems, which are often manifested as post-traumatic
stress disorder (PTSD). The book is aimed at those with PTSD and
those who are caring for someone with the disorder. It includes a
strong focus on wounded military personnel. Topics include:
understanding the symptoms including memory problems, avoidance and
denial, emotional numbing, and hyperarousal, related disorders such
as depression and substance abuse; traumatic memories and the
underlying biology - how brain mechanisms are affected in the
response to traumatic events. Treatments such as cognitive
behavioural therapy and EMDR. Narrative approaches, whereby people
develop their own stories about their traumatic experiences to help
them put them into meaningful contexts; Drug techniques including
anxiolytics and antidepressants, and the problems of prescribing
drugs for such a complex disorder; Problems faced by carers;
Vicarious or secondary trauma; Growing through experience - trauma
from an alternative perspective, that of resilience and growth;
Professional help - your GP, clinical psychologists and
psychiatrists.
Panic attacks happen when the body's emergency button is being
pressed continuously. Breathlessness, chest pains, sweating,
shaking, dizziness and fainting are all among the symptoms, and the
experience can be terrifying. Fluctuating blood-sugar levels,
anxiety and exhausted nerves affecting muscle tension and breathing
can all cause panic attacks. This book explains how to stop
pressing the panic button. Shirley Trickett shows how to understand
your inner self, and overcome panic attacks with a balanced
approach to meet your physical and emotional needs.
Surveys of stress-related illness suggest that more than 250,000
people in the UK are experiencing stress at a level that is making
them ill. Stress can indeed lead to extensive psychological and
physical suffering but one thing is clear: we do have choices.
"Stress will always be with us, and we will continue to suffer -
unless we choose to change" says Dr Cantopher. "The good news is
that this is possible - stress-related illness is avoidable, and if
you change, you will attain happiness" Topics covered include:
Causes of stress; Manifestations of stress - physical illness;
Psychological conditions, such as anxiety, panic disorder, OCD,
phobic states and depression; Acute treatments; Longer term
management; How to avoid stress and its ill effects; Lifestyle
issues; We have a choice! This book offers not just facts, but a
message of hope.
With this simple, straightforward solution, you can switch your
brain's autopilot from habitual stress and anxiety to a mindset
that is calm and wired for success. Stress debilitates and even
damages the brain, inhibiting you from living life to the fullest.
From your career to your family to your golf score, everything
depends on higher brain networks functioning at optimum. That's why
alleviating stress is the key to success-and why changing your
brain is the first step to sustaining more joy, peace, and
fulfilment at every level of life. In The End of Stress, Don Joseph
Goewey offers an easy, four-step method that will increase your
brainpower and end anxiety. Drawing on the latest research in
neuroscience and neuroplasticity, Goewey's cutting-edge approach
has been tested through webinars and seminars in high-stress
environments and proven effective from chief executives, managers,
and engineers to blue-collar construction workers. You have the
power to reach your highest potential-but it all starts with the
brain. The End of Stress gives you the tools you need to transcend
stress and make every day your best day.
In a time when crossing guards are posted to prevent high schoolers
from jumping in front of trains and parents shelling out $100K for
packaged college applications, education has become a mad race to
grab the Ivy ring. Based on experience in admissions with the Ivy
League and other highly competitive universities, emerging
scientific evidence on the impact of emotional intelligence and
mindfulness, and discussions with admissions officers, students,
families, and high school counselors, this book is a guide on how
to go through the existing, however brutish, college applications
process with less stress and anxiety, and more joy and mindfulness.
Equipped with the powerful tools of emotional intelligence and
mindfulness, this work acknowledges the reality of what the process
is, and challenges young people to reach for a more meaningful
ideal for themselves. This book shares a look at the holistic
admissions process and offers an alternative one to the current
climate of untenable stress. This updated model aims to shift
mindsets from treating the admissions process as a ruthless
competition with one externally-prescribed definition of success,
to a step in a lifelong journey of curiosity and wonder. By
building self-awareness, compassion, resilience, it's possible to
navigate the process with greater authenticity, balance, and joy.
Develop balance and harmony in all areas of life through
mindfulness The second edition of the Mindfulness Pocketbook:
Little Exercises for a Calmer Life brings you exercises and
practices to achieve greater balance and harmony in all areas of
your life. You'll find new ideas for enjoying nature, being mindful
at work, staying physically active, and encouraging creativity.
With this book, you can discover how mindfulness opens you up to
new ideas and fresh ways of doing things. You'll have a new
approach to reducing stress and increasing your enjoyment. This
revised edition of the bestselling Mindfulness Pocketbook shares
guidance on new paths to living more harmoniously. Be mindful in
the outdoors, communing with nature Use mindful techniques to
enhance creativity Practice mindful physical activity for a healthy
body and mind Add mindfulness to your workday The new section in
this pocketbook edition encourages you to treat yourself to small
pleasures, learn a new skill, and take time for relaxation and
holidays. A calmer, more balanced life is closer than you think!
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