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Books > Health, Home & Family > Family & health > Family & other relationships > Separation & divorce
The author will empower you to contain your children's anxiety and feelings of insecurity and to re-establish a measure of equilibrium as effectively as possible.
Using loads of case studies from her extensive files, Anne highlights the following:
- How, when and where to inform your children in an age-appropriate and honest way;
- Emotional support for you, the parent;
- Guidance on effective parenting skills to help your children;
- The how-to of active listening, anger management and clear, firm and consistent boundary setting - all with practical examples;
- The legal process - with reference to the New Childrens Act - which emphasizes the principle of the best interests of the child being of paramount importance;
- Assistance with compiling co-parenting agreements - taking in to account the ages and stages of the child, as well as possible limiting factors such as the need for supervised contact;
- Tips regarding ongoing relationships with extended family and the introduction of new partners;
- Advice to step-parents and parents who were never married before their separation
- And much, much more...
This title deals with emotionally difficult issues in a clear, anecdotal manner, and has an over-riding theme of positivity. There is a strong message of hope and reconciliation with the emphasis on the power of choice and the importance of mind-set change in order to move on.
The author of the #1 New York Times bestseller Think Like A Monk offers a revelatory guide to every stage of romance, drawing on ancient wisdom and new science.
Nobody sits us down and teaches us how to love. So we’re often thrown into relationships with nothing but romance movies and pop culture to help us muddle through. Until now. Instead of presenting love as an ethereal concept or a collection of cliches, Jay Shetty lays out specific, actionable steps to help you develop the skills to practice and nurture love better than ever before.
He shares insights on how to win or lose together, how to define love, and why you don’t break in a break-up. Inspired by Vedic wisdom and modern science, he tackles the entire relationship cycle, from first dates to moving in together to breaking up and starting over. And he shows us how to avoid falling for false promises and unfulfilling partners.
By living Jay Shetty’s eight rules, we can all love ourselves, our partner, and the world better than we ever thought possible.
Hard-hitting divorce lawyer James J. Sexton shares his insights and wisdom to help you reverse-engineer a healthy, fulfilling romantic relationship with How to Stay in Love.
With two decades on the front lines of divorce Sexton has seen what makes formerly happy couples fall out of love and “lose the plot” of the story they were writing together. Now he reveals all of the “what-not-to-dos” for couples who want to build―and consistently work to preserve―a lasting, loving relationship. Sexton tells the unvarnished truth about love and marriage, diving straight into the most common issues that often arise from simple communication problems and relationships that develop by “default” instead of design.
Though he deals constantly with the heartbreak of others, he still believes in romance and the transformative power of love. This book is his opportunity to use what he has learned from the mistakes of his clients to help individuals and couples find and preserve lasting connection.
Previously published as If You're In My Office, It's Already Too Late.
THE NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER From Erin French, owner and chef of
the critically acclaimed The Lost Kitchen, comes a life-affirming
memoir about survival, renewal and the pleasure of bringing joy to
people through food. Erin French grew up barefoot on a farm, fell
in love with food as a teenager working the line at her dad's diner
and found her calling as a professional chef at her tiny restaurant
The Lost Kitchen, tucked into a 19th-century mill-now a
world-renowned dining destination. In Finding Freedom in the Lost
Kitchen, Erin tells her story of multiple rock-bottoms, from
medical student to pregnant teen, of survival as a jobless single
mother, of pills that promised release but delivered addiction, of
a man who seemed to offer salvation but ripped away her very sense
of self. And of her son who became her guiding light as she slowly
rebuilt her personal and culinary life around the solace she found
in food-as a source of comfort, a sense of place, as a way of
creating community and making something of herself, despite
seemingly impossible odds. Set against the backdrop of rural Maine
and its lushly intense, bountiful seasons, Erin French's
rollercoaster memoir reveals struggles that have taken every ounce
of her strength to overcome, and the passion and courage behind the
fairytale success of The Lost Kitchen.
Avoid the expense and stress of divorce court.
Ending a marriage is always difficult, but you don’t have to be financially or emotionally overwhelmed. Through mediation or a collaborative divorce, you can avoid huge legal bills and debilitating conflict with your ex. This book guides you through all the steps of negotiating a divorce settlement, using mediation or collaborative law.
Encouraging, straightforward, and inspiring, Divorce Without Court explains mediation and collaborative divorce and shows you how to:
- choose the right method for your family
- maximize opportunities for settlement
- get an agreement in writing
- find mediators, attorneys, and advisers, and
- protect your children first, last, and always.
Divorce Without Court provides information about mediation organizations, and clear examples of what you can expect in mediation or collaborative divorce.
What happens when the very same system designed to protect children
fails? That's exactly what is happening right now in the UK family
courts in cases of Parental Alienation, a form of post-divorce
abuse. Cafcass define Parental Alienation as 'when a child's
resistance or hostility towards one parent is not justified and is
the result of psychological manipulation by the other parent'; yet
experts, therapists and social workers are not trained to assess or
deal with cases involving Parental Alienation. I spent years making
my case to judges, experts and lawyers, all of whom failed to agree
on what was actually happening between my ex-wife, my kids and
myself. At the time it seemed like I was constantly trying to prove
a negative, to find a new direction to reach my kids, and while all
were promising, all ended in expensive dead ends as my ex-wife
pursued her agenda. If I had to sum up the experience of trying to
prove Parental Alienation in the courts, I would describe it as
being trapped in the backseat of a car while it crashes in slow
motion. The system is not fit for purpose. The family courts are
slow and busy, burdened by the backlog of cases. Once you do get a
hearing, they are often set months away and even then, traditional
safeguarding assessments fail to detect Parental Alienation. The
longer the child is away from a parent, the harder it is to stop
the alienation, and the longer the issue remains unaddressed, the
risk of the children suffering mental health and behavioural
problems increases. Alienated parents also often display signs of
post-traumatic stress: paranoia, anxiety and in some cases are
suicidal. It is my hope that this book will not only draw attention
to the potential injustice in cases of Parental Alienation and the
need for meaningful reform to prevent further irreparable damage,
but that it will help a parent going through a family separation
spot signs before it's too late. About the author: The author is a
successful businessman, loving father and victim of parental
alienation. The author has used a ghost writer to validate his
story. The characters have been anonymised to both protect their
privacy and lift the veil on the inner workings of the family
court, which the author believes is in the public interest of
protecting children from harm.
Essential reading for anyone faced with the prospect of divorce or
separation who needs to know the law, their options, and the likely
consequences regarding children and possessions" A highly
informative, comprehensive, yet simple jargon-free guide on how to
unravel a personal relationship" The book's contents include the
consequences of breakdown of an informal relationship as well as
the breakdown of a marriage. In each case, rights and
responsibilities of the parties are outlined, particularly in
regard to Property, Possessions, Money and, of course, Children. As
well as being emotionally draining, the breakdown of a personal
relationship can be financially expensive. For those with limited
fi nances the use of professional advisers, such as lawyers, may
have to be 'rationed' and more of the processes undertaken by the
parties themselves, particularly as financial help from public
funds has now been virtually ended for most circumstances. This
book recognises that reality and, carefully and cleverly, suggests
how a degree of self-help may be both achievable and rewarding.
Die skrywer, 'n raadgewer, bemagtig jou danksy jare se praktiese
ervaring om jou kinders se angstigheid en gevoelens van onsekerheid
te beperk en so doeltreffend moontlik die ewewig in jou gesin te
hervestig. Sy gee praktiese riglyne oor die volgende aan die hand
van talle gevallestudies uit haar omvangryke leers: Hoe, wanneer en
waar om jou kinders op 'n ouderdomsgepaste en eerlike manier in te
lig; Emosionele ondersteuning vir jou as ouer; Hoe om aktief te
luister, woede te hanteer en duidelike, ferm en konsekwente grense
daar te stel; Die regsaspekte van die nuwe Kinderwet wat die beste
belange van die kind beklemtoon; Ooreenkomste vir gesamentlike
ouerskap; Voortgesette verhoudings met uitgebreide familie en hoe
om nuwe lewensmaats bekend te stel; Raad aan stiefouers en ouers
wat nooit voor die skeiding getroud was nie.
'When money flies out of the window, love walks out of the door. In
good times, money papers over the cracks in a relationship; in bad
times, fault-lines become divorce suits.' The recession is putting
many partnerships under strain. A top London law firm reports a
record number of people making appointments to see family lawyers.
Relate has also experienced an increase in the number of people
contacting them for relationship counselling, while the online
advice centre InsideDivorce.com, has reported that two million
married couples in the UK are experiencing marital problems and
that 1.3 million people are actively considering leaving their
marriage. Even in good times, almost 50% of marriages end in
divorce in England and Wales. It seems, therefore, that many people
need advice when faced with relationship breakdown. This book
provides a practical guide to the process couples must undergo in
order to legally end their marriage, and - while it is not a
counselling manual - aims to help them realise that they are not
the only people to have found themselves facing the complexities of
ending a relationship.
Starting over...it's not as easy as it sounds, is it? But, you've
made it through the pain of divorce, and you are eager for a new
beginning. God stands ready to help-He is the God of possibilities.
As you look toward the future, you may begin to ask questions about
what a new life might look like. Will I ever remarry, you wonder.
Do I want to remarry? There are other questions: How much time
should pass after a marriage ends before it's wise to explore a new
friendship or romance? Am I ready-emotionally, spiritually,
financially? Is my family prepared? Do I need to be completely
put-back-together before I can think about dating again or being
remarried? Dave and Lisa Frisbie have spent 20 years studying the
post-divorce family, and have been dubbed 'America's Remarriage
Experts.' In Dating After Divorce, they share stories of adults who
chose to remain single after divorce and explore why that choice
might make sense for you. They also share stories of people who
chose to begin dating and eventually to remarry. Dating after
Divorce will help you gauge your readiness and evaluate your
options, as you move forward to discover a new life and embrace all
God has in store.Reviews'Everyone who reads this new book will
understand very quickly that they are not alone, and will receive
help from the practical steps outlined along with Godly
inspiration. I highly recommend their books and also would
encourage you to invite them to come and speak at your
church.'-Gary Van Derford, Pastor, North Coast Church, Vista,
California'The increasing percentage of divorced adults requires
critical intervention. Dr. David & Lisa Frisbie are bringing
much-needed redemptive strategies into focus. In this excellent new
book, they are helping to provide answers for today's
questions.'-Dr. Paul G. Cunningham, General Superintendent
Emeritus, Church of the Nazarene
From the top 10 bestselling author of The Cornish Midwife When
Scarlett West's useless husband, Luke walks out one day and never
returns, she's left to try and make a new life for herself and her
four-year-old daughter, Ava. But with debts mounting, there's only
one place she can go... Returning home to the village where she
grew up, Scarlett starts to slowly rebuild her life. Their cottage
is beautiful, Scarlett has a new job and also the support of her
family and friends. Maybe this is the second chance she so
desperately needs? And then there's Cameron Ellis, Scarlett's
gorgeous new boss. Everyone thinks Scarlett and Cameron are perfect
for each other, and as Scarlett spends more and more time with him,
she begins to think that maybe he could be part of their new
future, too. That is until Luke returns, desperate to get his
family back.... From Jo Bartlett, the bestselling author of The
Cornish Midwives Series, perfect for fans of Jessica Redland, Holly
Martin and Christie Barlow. This title was previously published as
The Little Village on the Hill
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