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Books > Health, Home & Family > Family & health > Family & other relationships > Separation & divorce
Erica Manfred was fifty-five when her husband announced he was
leaving for a younger woman. Luckily, she had a girlfriend who had
been through a recent divorce--a friend who coached her through the
frustrating, frightening process of taking care of "herself" again.
Divorced or separated women need advice not only from experts such
as lawyers and therapists, but also from a sage, savvy girlfriend
who's been there, done that. This book is that friend. Drawing both
on her own experience and interviews with professionals and other
divorced women, Manfred covers it all--from the emotional
devastation to the legal and financial hurdles, from dealing with
the adult kids to getting back into the workforce . . . and back
into dating.
Southern women are inundated with rules starting early-from always
wearing sensible shoes to never talking about death to the dying,
and certainly not relying on song lyrics for marriage therapy.
Nevertheless, Katherine Snow Smith keeps doing things like falling
off her high heels onto President Barack Obama, gaining dubious
status as the middle school "lice mom," and finding confirmation in
the lyrics of Miranda Lambert after her twenty-four-year marriage
ends. Somehow, despite never meaning to defy Southern expectations
for parenting, marriage, work, and friendship, Smith has found
herself doing just that for over four decades. Luckily for
everyone, the outcome of these "broken rules" is this collection of
refreshing stories, filled with vulnerability, humor, and insight,
sharing how she received lifelong advice from a sixth-grade
correspondence with an Oscar-winning actress, convinced a
terminally ill friend to write good-bye letters, and won the mother
of all "don't give up" lectures by finishing a road race last (as
the pizza boxes were thrown away). Rules for the Southern Rule
Breaker will resonate with every woman, southern or not, who has a
tendency to wander down the hazy side roads and realizes the
rewards that come from listening to the pull in one's heart over
the voice in one's head.
'Gripping' Vogue 'Empowering' Cosmopolitan 'Joyful' Financial Times
'Eye-popping' Daily Mail When her 22-year-marriage suddenly ended,
47-year-old mother of three Laura expected life as she knew it to
be over. What she hadn't expected: * An incredible one-night stand
* A new-found sexual appetite * Ten men in eight months * That
there is plenty of fun to be had after 40 From G-spots to bald
spots, dirty talk to dating fiascos, Available is the unflinchingly
honest, empowering, and humorous true story of one woman's love
life after divorce. 'A real page-turner [...] Unexpected, original,
funny and sometimes deeply infuriating, Laura Friedman Williams has
so much to say about what we expect of women's sexuality. I loved
it' Viv Groskop author of How to Own the Room
When Like Breaks helps divorced parents through the process of
successfully raising their children while co-parenting. Tanzania
Davis-Black has journeyed through the painful process of raising
children during divorce. In When Life Breaks, she proves that
divorce can become a pathway to healing for the couple and
children. She walks readers through discovering: The power of
cooperation Emancipating oneself emotionally Communicating
dynamically Providing the necessary education to the children
Preparing oneself to be restored and healed. Tanzania shares
personal moments of her trials and techniques she employed in her
own life that has made all the difference in her relationship with
her children. When Life Breaks helps divorced parents embrace a new
reality for themselves and their children to begin the healing
process.
Reframe the narrative that a breakup is the end of something - and
instead, view it as the start of your journey to self-realization.
The end of a relationship doesn't have to mean despair. Discover
how to move past separation and embrace independence, positivity,
authenticity and new beginnings. In eight parts and 111 accessible
learnings, The Soul-Soaring Virtues of Separation combines the Law
of Attraction - the idea that we can attract positivity into our
lives - and self-help with Amy's own experience to help you find
your way back home to you. The Soul-Soaring Virtues of Separation
will share how separation can be the enabler to help you live an
authentic and joyful life. This book is for you if you're in a
place of limbo on the brink of separation, you've just separated,
you're divorced and struggling to move forwards, or you're
experiencing your first heartbreak after losing the love of your
life. It will walk you through the eight stages that are present in
separation - Assertiveness, Motivation, Insight, Self-Expression,
Uniqueness, Independence, Awakening and New Beginnings. Separation,
in its many forms, is a heady mix of conflicting emotions, often
hitting all at once - but everyone can learn to fly and one day
your soul will soar higher than it ever has before.
Suddenly Single shares real life stories of women at each stage of
their relationship break up making it instantly relatable for women
trying to move on after the ending of a relationship. Simple,
practical, and easy to read, this must-have guide is the perfect
companion for women at any stage of a relationship breakup. It
differentiates itself by helping readers to understand the
relationship break up process and then offers practical and proven
life coaching techniques that when applied can help women feel more
in control of their situation and more positive about their future.
Sprinkled with humour and positivity it offers hope to anyone
experiencing the loss of a relationship and teaches us that the
most important relationship we have in life is the one we have with
our self.
'No one else can make me laugh and cry quite like Jilly Cooper.'
Gill Sims 'Jilly Cooper's non-fiction is just as entertaining as
her novels.' Pandora Sykes ____________________ 'One truth I have
learnt, as middle age enmeshes me like Virginia creeper, is that I
shall never change-because my capacity for self-improvement is
absolutely nil.' Jilly Cooper's observations from her days as a
much-loved newspaper columnist cover everything to do with sex,
socialising and survival - from marriage, friendship and the
minutiae of family life, to the tedium of going to visit people for
the weekend, the stress of hosting dinner parties and the descent
of middle age. Entertaining and full of heart, this classic
collection of journalism from the legendary author explores the
highs and lows of everyday life with wit, wisdom and warmth. Praise
for Jilly Cooper: 'Joyful and mischievous' Jojo Moyes 'Fun, sexy
and unputdownable' Marian Keyes 'Flawlessly entertaining' Helen
Fielding
From Dr. Martha Stout's influential work The Sociopath Next Door,
we learned how to identify a sociopath. Now she tells us what to
actually do about it. While the best way to deal with a sociopath
is to avoid them entirely, sometimes circumstance doesn't allow for
that. What happens when the time comes to defend yourself against
your own child, a boss, or ruthless ex-spouse? Inspired by the many
chilling and often heartbreaking emails and letters she has
received over the years, from her work with the victims of
sociopathy, Dr. Martha Stout uncovers the psychology behind the
sociopath's methods and provides concrete guidelines to help
navigate these dangerous interactions. Organized around categories
such as destructive narcissism, violent sociopaths, sociopathic
coworkers, and the sociopath in your family, Outsmarting the
Sociopath Next Door contains detailed explanation and commentary on
how best to react in these situations to keep the sociopath at bay.
Uniting these categories is a discussion of changing psychological
theories of personality and sociopathy and the enduring triumph of
conscience over those who operate without empathy or concern for
others. By understanding the person you're dealing with and
changing the rules of the game, you'll be able to gain the upper
hand and escape the sociopath's influence. Whether you're fighting
a custody battle against a sociopathic ex or being gaslighted by a
boss or coworker, you'll find hope and help within these pages.
With this guide to disarming the conscienceless, Dr. Stout aims to
give readers the tools to protect themselves while conducting a
broader examination of human behavior and conceptions of normality.
A work of beautiful literary fiction that explores the experience
of feeling trapped by circumstances and events.
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