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Books > Health, Home & Family > Family & health > Family & other relationships > Separation & divorce
"Stag's Leap" is stunningly poignant sequence of poems that tells
the story of a divorce, embracing strands of love, sex, sorrow,
memory, and new freedom.
In this wise and intimate telling--which carries us through the
seasons when her marriage was ending--Sharon Olds opens her heart
to the reader, sharing the feeling of invisibility that comes when
we are no longer standing in love's sight; the surprising physical
bond that still exists between a couple during parting; the loss of
everything from her husband's smile to the set of his hip. Olds is
naked before us, curious and brave and even generous toward the man
who was her mate for thirty years and who now loves another woman.
As she writes in the remarkable "Stag's Leap," "When anyone
escapes, my heart / leaps up. Even when it's I who am escaped from,
/ I am half on the side of the leaver." Olds's propulsive poetic
line and the magic of her imagery are as lively as ever, and there
is a new range to the music--sometimes headlong, sometimes
contemplative and deep. Her unsparing approach to both pain and
love makes this one of the finest, most powerful books of poetry
Olds has yet given us.
In a time when divorce rates are higher than ever before-especially
in blended families-"The Fusion Family" offers welcome guidance,
practical advice, and easy-to-apply solutions and tools for
families in transition.Charlotte Egemar Kaaber is a certified life
and business coach, as well as a fusion mother. Relying on her
professional and personal experiences as well as interviews with
other blended families, she provides a comprehensive handbook aimed
at helping families build the kind of strong foundation that
enables everyone to stay united, even during the family's most
challenging times. Kaaber shares thought-provoking inspiration and
ways to succeed for a wide range of applicable issues, including
communicating with an ex-spouse; disciplining children in a blended
family; establishing new traditions and memories; dealing with
jealousy among the children and parents; being present and creating
security.The practical advice, tips, and tools included in "The
Fusion Family" will help any newly-blended family understand and
overcome challenges to create a new future together."I wish my
mother had read "The Fusion Family.""-Pernille, a Danish woman who
grew up in a blended family
Divorce has devastating effects on children. Yet for divorcing
parents who carefully consider and manage the intricacies
associated with this difficult time, both parents, as seen from the
child's perspective, can remain as loving and supportive as they
ever were. Parenting Through Divorce concisely lays out the
specific emotions and reactions parents need to anticipate from
their children while going through separation, divorce, and its
aftermath. Rather than weighing parents down with complicated
plans, confusing information, and legal terminology, this book
takes a commonsense approach, providing readers in a state of
emotional distress with the practical, down-to-earth advice they
need to sensibly and comfortingly guide their children through this
often-painful process. Covering the most common mistakes divorcing
parents tend to make, as well as addressing special issues that
come up for kids of different age groups, this book helps you
retain a strong, healthy, and loving environment for your child,
even in the midst of change. This is a much-needed repository of
wisdom and practical counsel for any family going through a time of
heightened feelings and fragile relationships.
A FriAndlier and Less Expensive Divorce Clients arriving in your office are usually confused about what mediation means, their legal rights, and how it's all going to be sorted out. You spAnd a good deal of your time just trying to educate them enough to proceed. The Divorce Mediation Handbook does much of this work for you. It explains the mediation procedure and reassures your clients that they can indeed work out their divorce in a reasonable and civil manner in mediation. It also gives them a great deal of information about - how children respond to divorce
- how property issues are addressed
- how future support may be considered
- how to prepare for mediation
Paula James, who has mediated over 600 divorces, offers the divorcing couple an encouraging and highly informative book to prepare them for your first session and the work ahead.
Nancy Stevens captures attention as she leads you through an
unimaginable divorce story of deception and cruelty. Offering
insights and practical take-aways, she gives hope to readers
experiencing their own journey. As a contented Army wife, married
for forty-six years to a career Army officer, Nancy is faced with a
cheating husband who, after conducting a clandestine affair,
suddenly decides to divorce her. In thirty-one heart-breaking
chapters, Nancy relates the twists and turns dealing with a
pathologically lying husband, a scheming mistress who becomes the
second wife, a military bureaucracy that protects its own, the
traumas of legal issues and bankruptcy manipulation, ugly
depositions and traumatic court appearances. With creativity, wit
and humor Nancy's account reveals both struggle and hope. Helpful
strategies and cogent advice are included at the end of each
chapter plus words of encouragement throughout to help other women
experiencing or contemplating divorce. These resources will help
readers searching for answers on how to prepare, protect themselves
and take the next steps.
*** 'An honest and thoughtful memoir. Moving but, ultimately, full
of hope. Beautiful.' KATE MOSSE 'Superb. Love & Care is a book
about the unbreakable bonds of family, the cruelty of passing time
and a love that never dies.' TONY PARSONS 'A beautiful, intimate
story of love and understanding - candid and funny. This is a
lyrical memoir of hope and forgiveness.' RAYNOR WINN, author of The
Salt Path 'He's in hospital again . . . and he's not eating.
Perhaps you should think about coming back to the UK,' Brenda said.
'I don't think your dad will be going home again.' Shaun's mother
is in a care home with Parkinson's Dementia and now his father is
dying. He should go back. And yet this was supposed to be his time.
Shaun has relocated to a new country to make a fresh start. His two
daughters are grown-up. He has moved on from the divorce. He is
single and he is free and still hoping to find love again. Will
this mean giving up on his own life? 'A heart-warming,
heart-wrenching, and beautifully humane account of loving and
caring.' NICCI GERRARD, novelist and author of What Dementia
Teaches Us About Love 'An insightful tale of care . . . this book
needed to be written.' JO GOOD, BBC Radio London 'A vital subject,
a really strong voice and, hurrah, humour makes this absorbing
reading.' CAROLINE RAPHAEL, Radio 4's Book at Bedtime 'An
eye-opening - and at times jaw dropping - account that will make
you weep with its tenderness and compassion . . . A highly readable
tale of redemption and a celebration of love's many hues.' PAUL
BLEZARD, Love Reading 'Moving' DAILY MAIL
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