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Books > Health, Home & Family > Family & health > Family & other relationships > Separation & divorce
Take coparenting to the next level and provide a stable environment
for your children as you and your spouse begin tackling your
separation or divorce. For parents who are separating and want to
put their children first, birdnesting could be the interim custody
solution you've been looking for. Instead of the children splitting
their time being shuttled between mom and dad's separate homes,
birdnesting allows the children to stay in the "nest" and instead,
requires mom and dad to swap, allowing each parent to stay
elsewhere when not with the children. Initially popularized by
celebrities, this method of coparenting is now becoming more
mainstream as a way to help ease children into a new family
dynamic. Birdnesting takes work and commitment but with Dr. Ann
Gold Buscho's guidance, you'll learn everything you need to know
about this revolutionary method. In The Parent's Guide to
Birdnesting, you will discover the pros and cons, the financial and
interpersonal considerations, and if it's the right decision for
you and your family.
The author of the #1 New York Times bestseller Think Like a Monk
offers a revelatory guide to every stage of romance, drawing on
ancient wisdom and new science. Nobody sits us down and teaches us
how to love. So we're often thrown into relationships with nothing
but romance movies and pop culture to help us muddle through. Until
now. Instead of presenting love as an ethereal concept or a
collection of cliches, Jay Shetty lays out specific, actionable
steps to help you develop the skills to practice and nurture love
better than ever before. He shares insights on how to win or lose
together, how to define love, and why you don't break in a
break-up. Inspired by Vedic wisdom and modern science, he tackles
the entire relationship cycle, from first dates to moving in
together to breaking up and starting over. And he shows us how to
avoid falling for false promises and unfulfilling partners. By
living Jay Shetty's eight rules, we can all love ourselves, our
partner, and the world better than we ever thought possible.
Whether your partner left or it's you who decided to end the
relationship, breaking-up is painful, difficult and sometimes
overwhelming. Friends and family urge you to forget the past and
reach for the future. However, it is never that simple. Before you
can move on, you need to understand what went wrong, mourn the loss
and, most importantly, to heal. In this compassionate book, marital
therapist, Andrew G Marshall takes you from hearing the bad news or
making the decision to leave, through the fall-out from the split,
the first steps of recovery and finally onto making a new life. He
covers: - Knowing when to stop trying and accept the inevitable. -
Why the break-up hurts so much. - Emotional first-aid to make it
through the worst times. - The difference between looking back and
learning, and becoming trapped in the past. - What helps and what
hinders recovery. - Making sense of your break-up. - Helping your
children cope. - Learning how to fly high again. With over 25
years' experience as a marital therapist, Marshall draws on
hundreds of case studies, and provides sensible, compassionate and
practical advice. (Some of the exercises in this book have appeared
in I Love You But I'm Not In Love With You by Andrew G. Marshall,
published by Bloomsbury)
Michele Weiner Davis goes beyond her marriage-saving bestseller, Divorce Busting, with this empowering and encouraging guide for revitalizing marriage and building stronger, more loving bonds. In a down-to-earth style that is free of psychobabble, Weiner Davis outlines a realistic, solution-oriented seven-step program for managing marital problems, which, when left unchecked, can drain the life out of a relationship. Using revealing anecdotes and in-depth case studies, she illustrates practical ways for marriage partners to - avoid the "divorce trap"
- identify specific marriage-saving goals
- move beyond ineffective, hurtful ways of interacting
- become an expert on "doing what works"
- overcome infidelity, Internet obsessions, depression, sexual problems, and midlife crises
- get your marriage back on track -- and keep it there
Rescue your marriage with the proven techniques of The Divorce Remedy -- sound, sensible advice from a renowned relationship expert!
The commonly asked question today is, "Should divorced people
remarry?" With great compassion and warmth, Dr. Laney maintains
that the more fundamental question with which Christ dealt is,
"Should married people be divorced?" His purpose is to draw the
church up short against the runaway divorce epidemic with a
theology of marriage.Challenging the church on the subject of
divorce and remarriage, the author carefully builds evidence from
scripture and from cultural and historical data for a
no-divorce/remarriage position. Not everyone will agree with Laney,
but it deserves the careful attention of all who are genuinely
concerned about the divorce issue.
*** 'An honest and thoughtful memoir. Moving but, ultimately, full
of hope. Beautiful.' KATE MOSSE 'Superb. Love & Care is a book
about the unbreakable bonds of family, the cruelty of passing time
and a love that never dies.' TONY PARSONS 'A beautiful, intimate
story of love and understanding - candid and funny. This is a
lyrical memoir of hope and forgiveness.' RAYNOR WINN, author of The
Salt Path * Shaun is finally free of responsibilities to anyone but
himself; single, with two grown up daughters, he is just embarking
on a new life in a new country when he gets a call to say his
father is dying. His mother has Parkinson's Dementia and is in a
care home. Shaun faces a stark choice: should he give up his
new-found freedom, or turn his back on the woman he'd fought so
hard to protect, not least from his own father? Shaun's mother had
loved and cared for her son all her life. Could he now do the same
for her? 'A heart-warming, heart-wrenching, and beautifully humane
account of loving and caring.' NICCI GERRARD, novelist and author
of What Dementia Teaches Us About Love 'An insightful tale of care
. . . this book needed to be written.' JO GOOD, BBC Radio London 'A
vital subject, a really strong voice and, hurrah, humour makes this
absorbing reading.' CAROLINE RAPHAEL, Radio 4's Book at Bedtime 'An
eye-opening - and at times jaw dropping - account that will make
you weep with its tenderness and compassion . . . A highly readable
tale of redemption and a celebration of love's many hues.' PAUL
BLEZARD, Love Reading 'Moving' DAILY MAIL
Examine a wide variety of divorce therapy approaches with this
seminal book. Divorce Therapy is one of the first books to present
a comprehensive approach to divorce therapy. Based on a foundation
of theory and research about divorce, this landmark volume focuses
on the help that psychotherapists can provide during the three
stages of divorce--pre-divorce decision making, divorce
restructuring, and post-divorce recovery. A distinguished array of
researchers and clinicians address discuss mediation, criteria for
a constructive divorce, remarriage, custody issues, and much more.
The Glass Castle meets The Nest in this stunning debut, an intimate
family memoir that gracefully brings us behind the dappled
beachfront vista of privilege, to reveal the inner lives of two
wonderfully colorful, unforgettable families. On a mid-August
weekend, two families assemble for a wedding at a rambling family
mansion on the beach in East Hampton, in the last days of the
area's quietly refined country splendor, before traffic jams and
high-end boutiques morphed the peaceful enclave into the
"Hamptons." The weather is perfect, the tent is in place on the
lawn. But as the festivities are readied, the father of the bride,
and "pater familias" of the beachfront manse, suffers a massive
stroke from alcohol withdrawal, and lies in a coma in the hospital
in the next town. So begins Jeanne McCulloch's vivid memoir of her
wedding weekend in 1983 and its after effects on her family, and
the family of the groom. In a society defined by appearance and
protocol, the wedding goes on at the insistence of McCulloch's
theatrical mother. Instead of a planned honeymoon, wedding presents
are stashed in the attic, arrangements are made for a funeral, and
a team of lawyers arrive armed with papers for McCulloch and her
siblings to sign. As McCulloch reveals, the repercussions from that
weekend will ripple throughout her own family, and that of her
in-law's lives as they grapple with questions of loyalty,
tradition, marital honor, hope, and loss. Five years later, her own
brief marriage ended, she returns to East Hampton with her mother
to divide the wedding presents that were never opened.
Impressionistic and lyrical, at turns both witty and poignant, All
Happy Families is McCulloch's clear-eyed account of her struggle to
hear her own voice amid the noise of social mores and family
dysfunction, in a world where all that glitters on the surface is
not gold, and each unhappy family is ultimately unhappy in its own
unique way.
In You're Going to Make It: 50 Morning and Evening Devotions to
Unrush Your Mind, Uncomplicate Your Heart, and Experience Healing
Today, New York Times bestselling author Lysa TerKeurst helps you
incorporate a new rhythm for those days when life feels too hard.
The daily practice of receiving and releasing-receiving God's
encouragement, instruction, and truth to start your day and
releasing to God all that's weighing you down at the end of each
day-sets you on a path toward healing. With 50 days of morning and
evening devotions and beautiful color photography of significant
locations where Lysa has worked through her own healing, You're
Going to Make It will help you stay connected to God and continue
loving others even in the middle of discouraging, disappointing, or
even devastating circumstances. Each devotion contains: a Bible
verse to start your day a statement of truth to remember throughout
your day space to write and release something back to God at the
end of your day a prayer to receive before you go to sleep to
better prepare for tomorrow Without these crucial components woven
into the routine of our harder seasons, connecting with the Lord
can very quickly begin to feel overwhelming and like just another
item on our to-do lists. Lysa understands this struggle and wants
to create a sacred space where women can bookend their days with
God by simply showing up, soaking in truth, and being reminded
they're not alone on their healing journey. In her gentle,
unassuming way, Lysa walks you through the pages of You're Going to
Make It, where you will: receive the biblical truth and
encouragement you need when hurtful situations leave you worn out
and unmotivated to spend time with God. escape the loneliness of
trying to heal on your own with trusted wisdom from a Bible teacher
and friend who understands your pain and wants to help you move
forward. be reassured that though this difficult season is part of
your story, it will not be your whole story. This difficult season
doesn't have to be a time of numbing the pain or going through the
motions. Let this devotional help you get intentional and know
that, though this may be a hard time, it can also be a holy time.
'No one else can make me laugh and cry quite like Jilly Cooper.'
Gill Sims 'Jilly Cooper's non-fiction is just as entertaining as
her novels.' Pandora Sykes ____________________ 'One truth I have
learnt, as middle age enmeshes me like Virginia creeper, is that I
shall never change-because my capacity for self-improvement is
absolutely nil.' Jilly Cooper's observations from her days as a
much-loved newspaper columnist cover everything to do with sex,
socialising and survival - from marriage, friendship and the
minutiae of family life, to the tedium of going to visit people for
the weekend, the stress of hosting dinner parties and the descent
of middle age. Entertaining and full of heart, this classic
collection of journalism from the legendary author explores the
highs and lows of everyday life with wit, wisdom and warmth. Praise
for Jilly Cooper: 'Joyful and mischievous' Jojo Moyes 'Fun, sexy
and unputdownable' Marian Keyes 'Flawlessly entertaining' Helen
Fielding
What to do with the fragments of a love affair? A postcard from a
childhood sweetheart. A wedding dress in a jar. Barbed wire.
Silicone breast implants. Red stilettos, never worn. These objects
and many others make up the inspiring, whimsical, sometimes
bizarre, and always unforgettable population of the real-life
Museum of Broken Relationships. A decade ago, two lovers were
struggling through their own painful breakup, desperate to heal
their heartbreak without destroying the memory of the love they had
shared. Then, an idea struck: they would create a communal space, a
kind of refuge for - and cathartic celebration of - the everyday
objects that had outlasted love. These items, along with the
anonymous, intimate stories each piece represented, quickly
captured hearts and imaginations across the globe. As word spread,
the tiny museum became a worldwide sensation. Collected here are
203 of the best, funniest, most heartwarming and thought-provoking
pieces that offer an irresistible experience of human connection.
The Museum of Broken Relationships is a poignant celebration of
modern love - and a must-read for anyone who has ever loved and
lost.
No more spinning your wheels trying to figure out how to leave your
abusive spouse. Have you ever wished you had the perfect guidebook
that would give you step-by-step information to help you carefully
plan a swift and safe departure from your emotionally abusive
spouse and help you prepare for getting a divorce - at the same
time? Here it is! In I Just Want Out, Jodi Schuelke combines
detailed practical information with her personal experiences and
the lessons she learned from strategically planning her exit (along
with her children) from her emotionally abusive first marriage. I
Just Want Out expands on the information found in such books as
Stop Walking on Eggshells and Splitting, by providing pre-departure
and pre-divorce planning and details about what to do, when to do
it, how to do it, and why it's important. Jodi will support you and
travel beside you on your journey to freedom using her practical
seven-step FREEDOM Framework process.
Get Powerful Now is a woman's guide from zero to becoming her own
hero after "he" is gone. Carol Zurita begins by sharing her
personal story about a breakup that led to a deep depression. She
takes readers on the journey with her through the chapters,
explaining the sequence of actions she took to recover from that
broken heart. Unexpectedly, the actions she took combined with a
new environment drove Carol to become an inspirational mentor not
only to women going through similar situations, but to anyone
searching to gain confidence and find their life purpose. Get
Powerful Now empowers those going through hard times to become
unstoppable and unbreakable.
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