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Books > Health, Home & Family > Family & health > Family & other relationships > Separation & divorce
'No one else can make me laugh and cry quite like Jilly Cooper.'
Gill Sims 'Jilly Cooper's non-fiction is just as entertaining as
her novels.' Pandora Sykes ____________________ 'One truth I have
learnt, as middle age enmeshes me like Virginia creeper, is that I
shall never change-because my capacity for self-improvement is
absolutely nil.' Jilly Cooper's observations from her days as a
much-loved newspaper columnist cover everything to do with sex,
socialising and survival - from marriage, friendship and the
minutiae of family life, to the tedium of going to visit people for
the weekend, the stress of hosting dinner parties and the descent
of middle age. Entertaining and full of heart, this classic
collection of journalism from the legendary author explores the
highs and lows of everyday life with wit, wisdom and warmth. Praise
for Jilly Cooper: 'Joyful and mischievous' Jojo Moyes 'Fun, sexy
and unputdownable' Marian Keyes 'Flawlessly entertaining' Helen
Fielding
Michele Weiner Davis goes beyond her marriage-saving bestseller, Divorce Busting, with this empowering and encouraging guide for revitalizing marriage and building stronger, more loving bonds. In a down-to-earth style that is free of psychobabble, Weiner Davis outlines a realistic, solution-oriented seven-step program for managing marital problems, which, when left unchecked, can drain the life out of a relationship. Using revealing anecdotes and in-depth case studies, she illustrates practical ways for marriage partners to - avoid the "divorce trap"
- identify specific marriage-saving goals
- move beyond ineffective, hurtful ways of interacting
- become an expert on "doing what works"
- overcome infidelity, Internet obsessions, depression, sexual problems, and midlife crises
- get your marriage back on track -- and keep it there
Rescue your marriage with the proven techniques of The Divorce Remedy -- sound, sensible advice from a renowned relationship expert!
How adults can heal the pain caused by their parents' divorce--from
"New York Times" bestselling author Gary Neuman
Millions of adults were children of divorce--and while a few
have found closure and healing, many continue to struggle with the
trauma of their parents' divorce, commonly even 20, 30, or 40 years
after it happened. If you are experiencing some of the common
reactions to divorce, including issues of trust, ongoing sadness,
and the feeling that you can't shake your past, then you are likely
still suffering from the pain of your parents' divorce. This book
is designed to help you rebuild your past, regardless of how long
you have felt unable to do so. Licensed family counselor Gary
Neuman has worked successfully with many adult survivors of
parental divorce. In this book, he presents a new, proven program
to help you see and understand your past in order to let go of the
pain of your parents' divorce and transform both your present and
your future.Presents a proven, 4-step process that will help you
re-experience your past and understand it in a new, more objective
wayGuides you through major issues that can affect adult survivors
of divorce, such as finding peace with your parents and getting
comfortable with loveWritten by the "New York Times" bestselling
author of "The Truth About Cheating" and "Helping Your Kids Cope
with Divorce the Sandcastles Way"
The commonly asked question today is, "Should divorced people
remarry?" With great compassion and warmth, Dr. Laney maintains
that the more fundamental question with which Christ dealt is,
"Should married people be divorced?" His purpose is to draw the
church up short against the runaway divorce epidemic with a
theology of marriage.Challenging the church on the subject of
divorce and remarriage, the author carefully builds evidence from
scripture and from cultural and historical data for a
no-divorce/remarriage position. Not everyone will agree with Laney,
but it deserves the careful attention of all who are genuinely
concerned about the divorce issue.
*** 'An honest and thoughtful memoir. Moving but, ultimately, full
of hope. Beautiful.' KATE MOSSE 'Superb. Love & Care is a book
about the unbreakable bonds of family, the cruelty of passing time
and a love that never dies.' TONY PARSONS 'A beautiful, intimate
story of love and understanding - candid and funny. This is a
lyrical memoir of hope and forgiveness.' RAYNOR WINN, author of The
Salt Path * Shaun is finally free of responsibilities to anyone but
himself; single, with two grown up daughters, he is just embarking
on a new life in a new country when he gets a call to say his
father is dying. His mother has Parkinson's Dementia and is in a
care home. Shaun faces a stark choice: should he give up his
new-found freedom, or turn his back on the woman he'd fought so
hard to protect, not least from his own father? Shaun's mother had
loved and cared for her son all her life. Could he now do the same
for her? 'A heart-warming, heart-wrenching, and beautifully humane
account of loving and caring.' NICCI GERRARD, novelist and author
of What Dementia Teaches Us About Love 'An insightful tale of care
. . . this book needed to be written.' JO GOOD, BBC Radio London 'A
vital subject, a really strong voice and, hurrah, humour makes this
absorbing reading.' CAROLINE RAPHAEL, Radio 4's Book at Bedtime 'An
eye-opening - and at times jaw dropping - account that will make
you weep with its tenderness and compassion . . . A highly readable
tale of redemption and a celebration of love's many hues.' PAUL
BLEZARD, Love Reading 'Moving' DAILY MAIL
The Glass Castle meets The Nest in this stunning debut, an intimate
family memoir that gracefully brings us behind the dappled
beachfront vista of privilege, to reveal the inner lives of two
wonderfully colorful, unforgettable families. On a mid-August
weekend, two families assemble for a wedding at a rambling family
mansion on the beach in East Hampton, in the last days of the
area's quietly refined country splendor, before traffic jams and
high-end boutiques morphed the peaceful enclave into the
"Hamptons." The weather is perfect, the tent is in place on the
lawn. But as the festivities are readied, the father of the bride,
and "pater familias" of the beachfront manse, suffers a massive
stroke from alcohol withdrawal, and lies in a coma in the hospital
in the next town. So begins Jeanne McCulloch's vivid memoir of her
wedding weekend in 1983 and its after effects on her family, and
the family of the groom. In a society defined by appearance and
protocol, the wedding goes on at the insistence of McCulloch's
theatrical mother. Instead of a planned honeymoon, wedding presents
are stashed in the attic, arrangements are made for a funeral, and
a team of lawyers arrive armed with papers for McCulloch and her
siblings to sign. As McCulloch reveals, the repercussions from that
weekend will ripple throughout her own family, and that of her
in-law's lives as they grapple with questions of loyalty,
tradition, marital honor, hope, and loss. Five years later, her own
brief marriage ended, she returns to East Hampton with her mother
to divide the wedding presents that were never opened.
Impressionistic and lyrical, at turns both witty and poignant, All
Happy Families is McCulloch's clear-eyed account of her struggle to
hear her own voice amid the noise of social mores and family
dysfunction, in a world where all that glitters on the surface is
not gold, and each unhappy family is ultimately unhappy in its own
unique way.
Examine a wide variety of divorce therapy approaches with this
seminal book. Divorce Therapy is one of the first books to present
a comprehensive approach to divorce therapy. Based on a foundation
of theory and research about divorce, this landmark volume focuses
on the help that psychotherapists can provide during the three
stages of divorce--pre-divorce decision making, divorce
restructuring, and post-divorce recovery. A distinguished array of
researchers and clinicians address discuss mediation, criteria for
a constructive divorce, remarriage, custody issues, and much more.
Get Powerful Now is a woman's guide from zero to becoming her own
hero after "he" is gone. Carol Zurita begins by sharing her
personal story about a breakup that led to a deep depression. She
takes readers on the journey with her through the chapters,
explaining the sequence of actions she took to recover from that
broken heart. Unexpectedly, the actions she took combined with a
new environment drove Carol to become an inspirational mentor not
only to women going through similar situations, but to anyone
searching to gain confidence and find their life purpose. Get
Powerful Now empowers those going through hard times to become
unstoppable and unbreakable.
No more spinning your wheels trying to figure out how to leave your
abusive spouse. Have you ever wished you had the perfect guidebook
that would give you step-by-step information to help you carefully
plan a swift and safe departure from your emotionally abusive
spouse and help you prepare for getting a divorce - at the same
time? Here it is! In I Just Want Out, Jodi Schuelke combines
detailed practical information with her personal experiences and
the lessons she learned from strategically planning her exit (along
with her children) from her emotionally abusive first marriage. I
Just Want Out expands on the information found in such books as
Stop Walking on Eggshells and Splitting, by providing pre-departure
and pre-divorce planning and details about what to do, when to do
it, how to do it, and why it's important. Jodi will support you and
travel beside you on your journey to freedom using her practical
seven-step FREEDOM Framework process.
Now in paperback--a groundbreaking guide that tells parents how to
help their children at the time of the breakup and in the many
years that follow within the post-divorce and remarried
family--from the New York Times bestselling author of The
Unexpected Legacy of Divorce.
In the tradition of the best parenting guidebooks comes a new work
by the renowned child psychologist Judith Wallerstein on a subject
that vexes millions of American moms and dads: How can you
genuinely protect your children during and after divorce?
Wallerstein answers this important question based on 30 years of
in-depth interviews with children of divorce and their parents.
Divorce is not a single event but a lifelong trajectory of changed
circumstances that demand a different kind of parenting than we
have ever known. In What About the Kids? Wallerstein shows parents
how to create a new family with compassion and wisdom. It covers
issues that arise at the time of divorce as well as suggestions for
talking to your children months and years after the event.
Eminent psychologist Judith S. Wallerstein shares her unique
insight and advice in What About the Kids?--the first comprehensive
guide to easing the impact of divorce on your children--including:
The best and worst ages for children to experience their parents'
divorce Right and wrong ways to explain divorce to your children
Choosing a custody arrangement that's best for your child How to
involve the grandparents--a major resource? Getting the children on
your side when you form new relationships The positive effects of
divorce on children (believe it or not) How divorce can actually
make you a better parent Raising children who grow up able to form
lasting relationships
What to do with the fragments of a love affair? A postcard from a
childhood sweetheart. A wedding dress in a jar. Barbed wire.
Silicone breast implants. Red stilettos, never worn. These objects
and many others make up the inspiring, whimsical, sometimes
bizarre, and always unforgettable population of the real-life
Museum of Broken Relationships. A decade ago, two lovers were
struggling through their own painful breakup, desperate to heal
their heartbreak without destroying the memory of the love they had
shared. Then, an idea struck: they would create a communal space, a
kind of refuge for - and cathartic celebration of - the everyday
objects that had outlasted love. These items, along with the
anonymous, intimate stories each piece represented, quickly
captured hearts and imaginations across the globe. As word spread,
the tiny museum became a worldwide sensation. Collected here are
203 of the best, funniest, most heartwarming and thought-provoking
pieces that offer an irresistible experience of human connection.
The Museum of Broken Relationships is a poignant celebration of
modern love - and a must-read for anyone who has ever loved and
lost.
"A compact but thorough guide to successfully handling and
surviving a divorce." -PsychCentral The bestselling author of Will
I Ever Be Good Enough?: Healing the Daughters of Narcissistic
Mothers draws on her expertise in treating men, women, and children
damaged by narcissists in this practical guide to divorce and its
aftermath. Narcissism-a personality disorder that goes beyond mere
selfishness and vanity-is a prevalent cause of marital and family
problems. Narcissists do not have the capacity to love, understand
other people's emotions, or feel empathy. They are grandiose in
their need for praise and attention, they overestimate their
abilities, and they diminish people around them with emotional
abuse. Being in an intimate relationship with a narcissist destroys
your hopes, dreams, and peace of mind and erodes your children's
emotional health and your finances. Does this sound like what you
have to deal with? If you ever look at your partner and wonder in
despair if you will ever be free, the answer is yes, you can be. A
leading authority on narcissism, Dr. Karyl McBride offers proven
therapeutic advice that will help you protect and nurture yourself
and your children through your difficult divorce, from separating
from your narcissistic partner and navigating the court system,
where a narcissist can be especially destructive, to a restorative
healing program of trauma recovery.
Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life is a no-nonsense self-help guide for
anyone who has ever been cheated on. Here's advice not based on
saving your relationship after infidelity,but saving your sanity.
When it comes to cheating, a lot of the attention is focused on
cheaters,their unmet needs or their challenges with monogamy. But
Tracy Schorn (aka Chump Lady) lampoons such blameshifting and puts
the focus squarely on the-cheated-upon (chumps) and their needs.
Combining solid advice that champions self-respect, along with
hilarious cartoons satirizing the pomposity of cheaters, Leave a
Cheater, Gain a Life offers a fresh voice for chumps who want (and
need) a new message about infidelity. This book will offer advice
on Stupid sh*t cheaters say and how to respond, Rookie mistakes of
the recently chumped and how to disarm your fears, Why chumps take
the blame and how to protect yourself, and more. Full of snark,
sass, and real wisdom about how to bounce back after the gut blow
of betrayal, Schorn is the friend who guides you through this
nightmare and gives you hope for a better life ahead.
Children living in separated family situations fare best when their
relationship with each of their parents continues to be close.
"Putting Children First" helps mothers and fathers unlock and
resolve the conflict around contact with children that can arise
during and after separation. Using strategies such as parenting
plans, scripted phone calls, and parenting meetings, the book will
enable parents to communicate effectively on all the most important
things in their children's lives--and make relaxed arrangements for
the continued involvement by both parents with their children.
For every woman searching for her voice, Anna Kloots shares her story
of starting over by trusting the magic that was always within...
Despite what appeared to be a glamorous existence full of globetrotting
adventures, behind the scenes, Anna felt invisible in her own life.
Consumed by a marriage that left no space for her own desires and
creativity, she chose to reframe the failure of her marriage as an
opportunity to begin again.
It was Anna's innate sense of adventure and love for the unknown that
led her to move abroad; travel around the world, visiting 80 countries;
start her own business; and marry a magician—all before her
mid-twenties. From the outside, her jet-setting lifestyle alongside her
husband looked perfect. But though she appeared to have all the freedom
in the world, in reality she was trapped in a slow-motion disappearing
act.
When her marriage collapsed, she decided to use her unhappy ending as a
chance for a new beginning—a reappearance into her own life and sense
of exploration and discovery, letting each destination challenge,
change, and shape her.
Following Anna's extensive travels from the bustling streets of Jaipur
to the canals of Venice to the desert of Dubai, My Own Magic is a
powerful memoir—a true, coming-of-age story about a woman rediscovering
the magic that she always had.
Anna's memoir is proof that travel can transform you, inspire you, and
even save you. Perfect for fans of Eat Pray Love.
Power of You: Learning How To Leave is dedicated to freeing those
stuck within toxic relationships including codependent victims of
narcissistic abuse. Compassionately grounded in science and
embedded in the author's 25 years plus of clinical experience, this
is nevertheless an easy and powerful read. Learn how to spot the
warning signs of unhealthy relationships, understand how they
develop and take practical steps to escape safely, heal fully and
avoid getting hooked again in the future. Refreshingly
straight-talking, this book encourages the reader to recognise the
tactics used against them, disarm the abuser and reconnect with the
empowering life they could be living "Sometimes we need to throw
that stone and call the judgment and just see things and people for
what they are!" - Michael Padraig Acton Michael Padraig Acton's 30+
years experience as a therapist and life coach, plus engaging case
studies plus insights from experts across different fields, are
packed into this fascinating, hard-to-put-down guide that will
empower abused sufferers - and those who care for them - to escape
their toxic binds forever... and move towards lasting health in
their relationships. Tackling narcissistic abuse, domestic
violence, codependency, coercive control and more, Learning How to
Leave explores toxic relationships in intimate relationships,
families, corporations, business partnerships and more. Michael
Padraig Acton is dedicated to revealing the connection between
narcissistic personality disorder abuse and domestic violence that
is spreading disaster and death across the world while letting the
abusers walk free and repeat their crimes. The power of knowledge,
understanding and support offered to victims of toxic relationships
can be a life-changing step towards freedom. The Narcissist's
Mantra "That didn't happen. And, if it did, it wasn't that bad.
And, if it was, that's not a big deal. And if it is, that's not my
fault. And if it was, I didn't mean it. And if I did, you deserved
it."
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