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Books > Health, Home & Family > Family & health > Family & other relationships > Separation & divorce
Horsefeathers, Chaos, and Tragedy is an incredible true story about
a marriage, divorce, and child custody struggle that happened over
a generation ago. This saga happened in Canada at a time when
divorce laws were relaxed. One may regard this story, in part, as
an expos of the then rapidly expanding divorce industry. The levels
of intelligence, competence, and integrity of a few of the
professionals involved in this process at that time are clearly
portrayed. Four children were involved. Two of them were old enough
to decide where they wanted to live. The custody struggle involved
the two younger ones. The problem centered on the behaviour of the
two parents and specifically on the marked differences between the
public and private conduct of one of them. At various times, four
different psychiatrists, more or less independent of each other,
were sufficiently concerned about the mother's behaviour that they
felt the father should be bringing up these young children.
However, the wife hired a lawyer who had a reputation for
manipulating witnesses and enhancing affidavits. The resulting
struggle, in and out of court, was almost beyond belief.
The brand new novel from the international bestselling author of
The Bridesmaid and Queen Bee! Nameless. Faceless. Deadly?Waitress
Kit Lowman knows that people look down on her and the job she does.
But being anonymous offers Kit safety and security and allows her
own terrible secrets to remain hidden. And then Kit's luck changes,
and she suddenly faces a terrible dilemma: reveal her true identity
and accept that life will never be the same. Or stay in the
shadows...where she hopes she'll be safe? But secrets can't stay
hidden forever. And the more Kit tries to hide away, the more
someone makes it clear that they are going to make her pay for what
she did. Praise for Nina Manning: 'Heart-stopping, pacy and tension
filled. Highly recommended.' Claire Allan, USA Today Bestseller
'Compelling and claustrophobic, Nina is an exciting new voice and
definitely one to watch' Phoebe Morgan, author of The Babysitter
'Chilling and creepy. An atmospheric and addictive debut.' Diane
Jeffrey, author of The Guilty Mother 'Totally addictive. I couldn't
put it down!' Darren O'Sullivan, author of Closer Than You Think 'A
claustrophobic, nail-biting thriller that draws you in and doesn't
let go.' Naomi Joy, author of The Liars 'Clever, emotionally
draining and totally gripping. I absolutely loved this book!' D E
White, author of The Forgotten Child
In the second of Fenella's three books, happiness is short lived in
marriage - eleven days to be exact, followed by a seven year
nightmare before finally bailing ship. The first book: "Rejoice...
I Will Fear No Evil (Psalm 23)" begins with physical abuse, but the
marriage as told through the character of Jessica, was a
relationship of emotional abuse, that led to planning suicide as
the only escape. Having counselled and helped others, Jesse
couldn't help herself Of course, Jesse lives to tell the story, but
has many sadness's and three major bereavements to deal with, not
to mention the unleashing of a great anger and bitterness in her
heart and the spoils they bring. Whilst succeeding in a career
working with young people having been forced out of mission, her
personal life becomes a non-stop quest for love, internet dating,
and a total failure, hidden behind the mask of a clown. A finger of
fate flicks the switch bringing sickness - ME, and the ensuing
realities of limitations, causing Jesse to go in pursuit of yet
another lifelong dream to improve her quality of life... requiring
her to sell up, saying farewell to friends, seeking pastures new
and fresh opportunities. Priding herself on being a survivor, Jesse
brushes the hurts under the carpet and moves on 'til such a time
when the hurts and disappointments become a mountain impossible to
avoid and a volcano bursts beyond the mask, spewing the poisons
within... and a realisation that something has to change. Returning
to her waiting 'Perfect Valentine', He empowers and encourages
Jesse to break free from the chains of self-pity, low self-worth,
and the constant cloud of failure, to a place of victory - with the
dreaded mountain as rubble at her feet "When I stand before God at
the end of my life, I would hope that I would not have a single bit
of talent left, and could say, 'I used everything you gave me." I
am touched by the almost childlike way Fenella Stevensen views life
in her early years of "Rejoice... I Will Fear No Evil (Psalm 23)"
struck by the sincerity in each word, and the emotion which at
times jump out of the pages. Fenella has unearthed an incredible
talent in that her life story, but most of all in spreading the
word that no matter where you come from, what dark journeys life
makes you take, hope prevails. Patrick Jason - Malta Now
I commend Dr. Mattocks for his forthright presentation of Broken
Family-Fractured Society, which addresses the alarming and
deteriorating condition of the family in our contemporary society,
and offers advice and encouragement based on a firm foundation of
biblical principles. The author's intent is to promote the
preservation of marriage in the values that the Lord gave the human
family in the Garden of Eden. This is an invaluable work for those
interested in one of the most crucial issues facing humankind. This
insightful book is a must-read for every family, church leader,
teacher, and counselor-anyone interested and involved in the
challenge of restoring holiness in marriage. Mary Melton, MA,
California Dr. Mattocks shows that marriage goes far beyond man and
woman coming together and exchanging vows and rings. It is in fact
fundamental to the survival of mankind and critical in God's plan.
Sonia Golding, Birmingham, England
This book tells the story of a young woman who grew up in a poor,
single parent home, surrounded by drugs, violence, and welfare
recipients. K'Dee was known to be smart, academically, but the
question was: Did she have common sense? K'Dee has always aspired
to have the finer things; however, life had a different plan. At a
young age, she ran from her problems until she built up the courage
to face them head on with prayer, perseverance, and persistence. If
you want to know how she survived the pain, hurt, and agony of an
abusive marriage, managed a family while moving ten times in one
year, overcame depression, coped with the death of her mother,
battled her own illness, and conquered love, while chasing her
dreams...it's all here Through it all, people wondered how she
could wear a smile on her face, dress like a millionaire, and still
be thankful to God. Through all that K'Dee was challenged with, she
came out on the other side of life with self-esteem, expectations
and standards as high as Mount Everest. This humorous, yet serious
self-examination of K'Dee's life is no exception to the hard work
she produces.
"Hock the platinum. Take down the vacation photos. Cancel the
joint checking account."
There's no question . . . Divorce Sucks. And perhaps no one
knows that better than author Mary Jo Eustace, whose ex-husband
Dean McDermott married Tori Spelling a mere thirty days after their
divorce was finalized. One part tell-all and one part guide to get
readers on their feet after a bitter breakup, this hilarious
addition to the bestselling Sucks series tells everything readers
don't want to know about divorce - from what a phone call with a
lawyer will cost; to how to handle your newer, younger replacement;
to what Hollywood divorcees are actually thinking when they watch
their ex walk the red carpet with a millionairess. Sometimes
horrifying, sometimes gratifying, and never merciful, this book
will give readers an inside look at one of today's most public
divorces while reminding them - hey, it could always be worse.
This harrowing tale is based on true events of a brave woman who
encountered a near death experience at the hands of her con man
husband. Throughout the course of the relationship, Leah
experienced many behaviors exhibited by a professional con man:
deceit, abuse, fraud, theft, manipulation, and ultimately,
attempted murder. Leah wishes to tell her story in hopes of
bringing awareness to all who find themselves in unhealthy
relationships like this one. Those who find themselves in this type
of relationship need to find the courage and strength to "get out"
before its too late. This story is insightful, sad, frightening,
funny, and full of hope.
Although it is not always recognized, the damage left by a divorce
or an abortion can be devastating. These actions have not only
physical consequences, but psychological and spiritual ones as
well. No individual or family comes out of either experience
unharmed. Recently, the Pontifical John Paul II Institute s
International Congress, comprised of the world s foremost experts
in each field, was held to discuss the suffering of people who have
been affected by these acts and the ways in which their lingering
pain should be approached and relieved. The findings of this
symposium, compiled by leading authorities Carl Anderson and Father
Livio Melina, form the basis of "Oil on the Wounds: A Response to
the Aftermath of Divorce and Abortion.
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The book is divided into two sections. The first section deals
with the aftermath of divorce, its long-term effects on the social
lives of children, and the ways in which the Church can offer
compassion and counsel to those affected. The second section
addresses the issue of abortion, the pain that results from ending
a pregnancy, and what the Church s role should be in the
alleviation of that pain. The text relies on sociological and
psychological perspectives to illuminate these wounds, and suggests
both practical and spiritual methods of healing. Inspired by the
biblical story of the Good Samaritan, this volume asks us to
recognize the profound torment left in the wake of divorce and
abortion. It urges us to act accordingly in the face of these
ordeals--to shoulder the burden of the tormented in an attempt to
one day alleviate their suffering by the grace of God.
Ultimately, this collection of essays is meant to create a
dialogue, promote recognition of those psychologically and
spiritually harmed by divorce or abortion, and explore our duty to
listen to these victims and, like the Good Samaritan, bandage their
wounds. This book is for laymen, professionals, and clergy who seek
to understand the issues not only from a religious point of view,
but also from a human perspective.
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Cuando enfrentamos el duelo de la separaci n, todos deseamos poder
resolverlo, mujeres y hombres van buscando regresar a la vida.
Estoy convencida de que, con trabajo amoroso: ..". un d a, la
herida cerrar, dejar una cicatriz que ir tomando fuerza y
finalmente, dejar de doler, podr pasar el dedo sobre la herida y
ver que ya no duele; podr hablar del tema sin desgarrarse, con
certezas. Es cuando esta cicatriz deja de doler cuando podr dar
paso al perd n. Entonces el duelo se habr resuelto."Escrito desde
la mujer y para la mujer, la trasciende y alcanza al hombre.
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