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Books > Health, Home & Family > Family & health > Family & other relationships > Separation & divorce
In the winter of 2009, Rachel Cusk's marriage of ten years came to an end. Candid and revelatory, Aftermath chronicles the perilous journey as the author redefines herself and creates a new version of family life for her daughters.
This autobiography is an all too common account of what life is like in an abusive marriage. Also common is the shame that makes the victim feel worthless and abandoned. She was too proud to tell but her practical approach to her husband's bipolar disorder helped her rebuild her life. Finding his crack-cocaine meant even more cruelty until he divorced her. After years of peace in her life, her former husband returns to the only place she was safe from him for the ultimate humiliation. Only this time, the pain and humiliation he caused her became the strength to reach out to others who continue to live with the pain and humiliation of abuse and addiction.
The author of the #1 New York Times bestseller Think Like a Monk offers a revelatory guide to every stage of romance, drawing on ancient wisdom and new science. Nobody sits us down and teaches us how to love. So we're often thrown into relationships with nothing but romance movies and pop culture to help us muddle through. Until now. Instead of presenting love as an ethereal concept or a collection of cliches, Jay Shetty lays out specific, actionable steps to help you develop the skills to practice and nurture love better than ever before. He shares insights on how to win or lose together, how to define love, and why you don't break in a break-up. Inspired by Vedic wisdom and modern science, he tackles the entire relationship cycle, from first dates to moving in together to breaking up and starting over. And he shows us how to avoid falling for false promises and unfulfilling partners. By living Jay Shetty's eight rules, we can all love ourselves, our partner, and the world better than we ever thought possible.
A fresh start in a picture-perfect English town brings the hope of new friends, new adventures and even new romance in this heart-warming novel from readers' top pick Fay Keenan. When Kate Harris accepts the job of redecorating her brother Aidan's house in the picturesque town of Willowbury, she knows it's just a stop gap before she has to decide what to do with the rest of her life. While her three sons spend the summer holiday with their father, Kate has an opportunity to prove to herself that there is a new life, after her divorce. Harry Sinclair is the owner of Vale Volumes book shop on Willowbury High Street. Content, if a little bored with his lot, his shop, as well as his life, could do with freshening up. When Kate offers to spruce up Vale Volumes ready for the visit of a famous author, they find they have a lot more in common than colour schemes. But both have secrets and responsibilities, and when the trials of family life threaten their burgeoning friendship, can they overcome the experiences of their pasts? Will Somerset's most magical town cast its spell on them? Or will Kate and Harry have to concede that their friendship really is just for the summer? Let Fay Keenan transport you to the perfect British summertime, with beautiful countryside, an unforgettable romance, and just the right dose of escapism. Perfect for all fans of Debbie Macomber, Cathy Bramley and Katie Fforde. What authors and readers say about Fay Keenan's novels: 'Guaranteed to put a spring in your step. Feel-good, frisky and great fun with a hearty dash of romance and intrigue.' Julie Houston 'Moving, funny, thoughtful and romantic. Bring on the next one!' Jenny Kane 'This is a lovely and heart-warming story, that has a serious side hidden within the romance.' Amazon reviewer ' It was a wonderful book, guaranteed to put a smile on your face. Amazon reviewer 'I was so engrossed in the storyline, which is thoroughly heart-warming, that I read the entire book without stopping. I always enjoy Keenan's books and am looking forward to the next one!' Amazon reviewer
In "My Wheelchair View', the author recollects several anecdotes relating to her family. She breaks up the stories by theme, and many stories about the same person or group of people are often placed together. While many of the stories are humorous, some of them are quite serious, such as the ones relating what it was like to be restricted to a wheelchair at the age of sixteen. This piece is made up of several stories, recollections, and vignettes as told through the eyes of the author. This piece might appeal to individuals who are interested in autobiographical nonfiction, particularly memoirs.
Have you been deathly ill? Did you make a decision that caused discord in your family? Has your lifetime dream ever been threatened? Are you contemplating a divorce? Have you experienced self doubt and anxiety? Has someone you love been dishonest with you and emotionally abusive? Have the decisions you made in life affected your children? Are you a professional woman who has been used financially by a mate? Do you suffer with adult Attention Deficit Disorder or Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder? Did you ever have to start your life all over? Have you ever heard God's voice, but could not recognize it? Dr. Elise Wilfred has experienced all of those things. In this compelling story of faith and determination, she gives her testimony of the life lessons that brought her closer to God. Dr. Wilfred uses her personal experiences and medical knowledge to offer unique insights into issues that many people can relate to. This is a self help book that can serve as a template for anyone experiencing similar obstacles in life. There are bible verses and other information that can be applied to each situation.
There's no such thing as an easy divorce. On top of the emotional turmoil, there are also numerous other concerns - from organising finances and splitting property, to breaking the news to children, and picking the best lawyer. This comprehensive guide shows that, with a clear-head and straight-talking advice, divorce can be swifter and easier than expected, letting you make a clean break and move on with confidence. Divorce For Dummies includes the most up-to-date information on:* What to Do First When Things Start to Go Wrong* Separation: A Healthy Breather or a Prelude to Divorce?* Helping Your Children Get Through Your Divorce* Pre-marital Agreements* Same-sex and DIY divorces About the author Elizabeth Walsh is a legal expert and the Editor of Family Law, recently voted 'Legal Journal of the Year'. Thelma Fisher is a former chair of the UK College of Family Mediators and has been involved in mediation for over twenty years.
This book provides a comprehensive, in-depth analysis of the origin and the root causes of high conflict divorce. Through rich case studies, the author then points the way towards remediation as well as making specific recommendations for the legal and mental health professions. Counselors, social workers, psychologists, psychiatrists, lawyers and judges that regularly contend with high conflict divorce will benefit from drawing from this new approach in their practice.
Find refuge, healing and restoration when women allow God into the storms of their lives. Tracey Green shares practical and inspirational lessons on how God strengthened and transformed her through the transition of becoming single again when she: Leaned on His strength Rested in His peace Knew Him as her husband Guarded her heart Became a vessel of honor
- Complements the forthcoming core text outlining the key principles to this program. - Can be used away from the group scenario, allowing participants to continue the work through easy-to-understand guidance.
By the time you are thinking about divorce you either want one or you’ve just learned your marriage is over. This is often the start of an uphill battle that leaves most people in financial and emotional ruin. Well, not if you Divorce Smart. With one in three marriages now ending in divorce, it is imperative to be informed of the long-term challenges involved in divorce and separation. This book is a step-by-step guide to navigating the legal paper work, child care planning and financial security issues you will face during and after divorce. Divorce Smart gives the reader clear, concise information on maintenance, property, health care, pension funds and investments, ensuring that women are empowered to secure their home, keep as much wealth as possible and provide for their children well beyond the end of this marriage. Whether you are married in community of property, traditionally or in a same-sex civil union there is always a way to Divorce Smart.
Myths and Lies About Dads: How They Hurt Us All is a groundbreaking book that destroys more than 100 of the most damaging beliefs about fathers. Using the most recent research, this pioneering work exposes these baseless beliefs and the toll they take on children's relationships with their fathers, parents' relationships with one another, and the physical and mental health of fathers and mothers. Tackling a wide range of topics from custody laws, to children's toys, to the sexist behavior of counselors, pediatricians, and lawyers, Dr Linda Nielsen describes in vivid detail how these myths are linked to many of our most pressing issues: Creating more gender equity in childcare and housework Reducing child abuse, post-partum depression, and fathers' suicide rates Expanding mothers' and fathers' options at home and at work Reducing children's academic, behavioral, and emotional problems Lessening the pressures of parenting for both parents Changing sexist policies and practices that hurt parents and children Improving the economic situations for parents and their children The book is not only a wake-up call for parents but also for students and professionals in medicine and family law, social work, child development, education, and in the publishing, advertising, media, and entertainment industries. Above all, the book empowers parents to free themselves from the myths and lies about fathers that bind them.
Builds on psychological narratives and focuses on several main themes, including feelings of insecurity and failure, body issues, negative personality traits and alienation, giving the reader an understanding of the variety of ways in which absent and inadequate fathers affect their daughters. Includes clinical material from the author's own work as well as that of psychoanalysts such as Andre Green ensuring that the book is grounded in both interdisciplinary theory and practice. Schwartz also discusses the poetry of Sylvia Plath, fairytales, and Jung's silence about his own daughters highlighting literary parallels to psychology and elucidating Jungian concepts.
'I give this as a present more than other book. I buy it for people so
often that I’ve been known to give girlfriends two copies, one birthday
after another’ - Dolly Alderton
How does an upwardly-mobile woman of color find the balance between her career, love life and friendships in modern day Manhattan? Man-eater Julissa Longoriez and betrayed wife and mother Nahla Voyas are on a quest to find out just that in I Live, You Move On.Between her ambition and her passion, Julissa Longoriez has more on her plate at this point in her life than she ever expected. The quintessential sexy, sultry Latina, she hides behind a fa ade of detachment to avoid commitment. But when she meets the first man to get past her cool, unaffected career woman veneer, Julissa must admit to herself that what she truly fears is honesty about her past. Will opening up about her secrets open her heart and set Julissa free? Or will it destroy her once chance at love and the man willing to offer it?After sacrificing her dreams to build the perfect marriage and family, Nahla Voyas is facing a truth she can no longer ignore: her husband has never been as devoted to their life together as she is. As she works to redefine herself as the ultimate role model of "sister girl" strength for her daughter - tackling a list of dreams and goals deferred for too long - a tragic accident threatens to keep her trapped in a loveless marriage. Can Nahla look past her husband's past indiscretions and find in this tragic turn of events a second chance at marital bliss? Or will she finally learn to love herself more than him for the sake of their child?I Live, You Move On uniquely offers each woman's response to life's challenges, weaving a modern urban fairy tale from their successes and losses, laughter and tears.
This book provides a comprehensive overview of established evidence-based interventions for the problems inherent in parental alienation. The book focuses on helping families and ensuring the needs of the child are met. Increasing attention has been given to the subject of parental alienation in recent years, as divorce rates have increased and more children are being brought up in the context of ongoing parental conflict, risking significant emotional harm. Chapters point to the application of numerous evidence-based interventions that are already available and detail how to identify, assess and intervene effectively with families where parental alienation has been identified. This text will be of interest to those working in the family courts, particularly expert witnesses, clinical psychologists, therapists, social workers, guardians and other legal professionals, in addition to researchers with an interest in parental alienation.
""Once upon a time I was perfectly happy--complacent even. But then
my world came crashing down and I was suddenly a single mum of two
small children, losing sleep over how to pay the bills. The things
I learned allowed me to retain my sanity, self-esteem, and sense of
humour and to help my children get through the experience. I
discovered how to release the traumatic experiences and emotions
that were holding me back and find more fun, fulfillment, and
balance in my life (not to mention my lovely husband )""
Even the best-laid plans often don't go according to schedule, and in Joanna Caroll's case, it was her marriage. In Next Course, Please , Caroll shares the inspirational story of how she found love after divorce while providing a humorous comparison of the men highlighted in her anecdotes to burned French toast, Irish stew, crme Brule, and Jell-O-just to name a few. Caroll spent a great deal of time reflecting on her own path and how she transformed from an unsure newlywed to the strong, independent woman she is today. While sharing inspirational quotes and common sense suggestions on how to find love despite the constraints of motherhood and work, Caroll details how her road to finding love after divorce was like a meal plan-each course bringing her to the next-until she found the icing on the cake. Caroll mentors others on how to savor each course in a relationship and unearth the kind of ingredients that will lead to the right mate. With self-deprecating wit, Next Course, Please illustrates scrumptious stories that will help others come to terms with a failed relationship, find the hope and determination to overcome life's obstacles, and discover true happiness.
Take coparenting to the next level and provide a stable environment for your children as you and your spouse begin tackling your separation or divorce. For parents who are separating and want to put their children first, birdnesting could be the interim custody solution you've been looking for. Instead of the children splitting their time being shuttled between mom and dad's separate homes, birdnesting allows the children to stay in the "nest" and instead, requires mom and dad to swap, allowing each parent to stay elsewhere when not with the children. Initially popularized by celebrities, this method of coparenting is now becoming more mainstream as a way to help ease children into a new family dynamic. Birdnesting takes work and commitment but with Dr. Ann Gold Buscho's guidance, you'll learn everything you need to know about this revolutionary method. In The Parent's Guide to Birdnesting, you will discover the pros and cons, the financial and interpersonal considerations, and if it's the right decision for you and your family.
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