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Religious rivalries have been at the root of many human conflicts
throughout history. Representatives of nine world religions offer
insights into the teachings of nonviolence within their tradition,
how practice has often fallen short of the ideals, and how they can
overcome the contagion of hatred through a return to traditional
teachings on nonviolence. Included are a new Foreword and Preface,
a new Introduction by Daniel Smith-Christopher, two new chapters on
Islam and the indigenous religion of the Maori, and a new Epilogue.
In addition, study questions have been added to each chapter.
While the Covid-19 pandemic has confined most of the world to some form of lockdown, it has also confronted us with the horrific truth about the pandemic of gender-based violence. This self-help book is for every person dealing with domestic violence and sexual abuse, not only in South Africa, but around the world.
We remember all the victims of abuse who have been silenced by death. Women and children are being raped, abused, stalked - and murdered - but are expected to keep quiet about this. We can no longer accept this as "normal". Statistics tell us that more than half of all murders worldwide are committed by partners. Husbands, wives or relational partners suffer the worst abuse.
These stories are told anonymously to protect their identities and their safety. They have shared their stories willingly, in their own words, from their perspective. And they have done so with love - hoping that sharing their stories will make a difference to yours.
May these stories inspire you to find your voice, face this onslaught with courage, and overcome it to live a free, healthy life.
This companion workbook to The Wounded Heart will help you work
through the complex issues of sexual abuse in a concrete way by
leading you step-by-step through the process of change. It also
includes specific sections for men, ideas for discussion-group
facilitators, and reflective quotations from fellow strugglers with
sexual abuse.
Are you repeating old patterns in relationships?
Do you struggle to express your boundaries, standards and core values
with your partner?
Want to shift the narrative in your dating life and become the best
version of yourself?
Too often, conversations about toxic relationships have revolved around
them: their choices, their behaviour, their problem. Right?
Wrong.
Loving Me After We is here to set you you straight and help you on your
path to healing. In this warm, encouraging and honest guide,
psychotherapist Ginger Dean will show you:
- How your trauma responses can keep you trapped in the cycle of
toxicity
- Why you choose unavailable but familiar partners
- How you can break free from co-dependency
- What you need to do to move on from the past to create a future
where you can truly thrive
This is your essential handbook to breaking up with toxic relationships
for good, healing from past traumas and moving towards a more joyful
future.
In the UK, around one in six men will experience some form of
sexual violence. Many of these men who experience sexual abuse are
dismissed, only brought up as the butt of a joke, an exception to
the rule or, perhaps at worst, are used as a rhetorical tool
against female victims. Conversations on sexual violence have
understandably focused on women's voices and experiences, with data
indicating that women are still the majority of victims and not
enough is being done to prevent this violence. As most perpetrators
of this violence against women are men, it becomes almost easy to
mistake that male survivors stories are exceptions or irrelevances.
The fact is that we share a world and our experiences are closely
interwoven. Sons and Others challenges misconceptions and
misrep-resentations of sexual violence against men across media and
society and offers a new way of seeing and understanding these men
in our lives, asking how the violence they experience affects us
all.
A tale of survival and freedom, Stolen Innocence is the story of
one heroic woman who stood up for what was right and reclaimed her
life. In September 2007, a packed courtroom in St. George, Utah,
sat hushed as Elissa Wall, the star witness against polygamous sect
leader Warren Jeffs, gave captivating testimony of how Jeffs forced
her to marry her first cousin at the age of fourteen. This
harrowing and vivid account proved to be the most compelling
evidence against Jeffs, showing the harsh realities of the lengths
to which Jeffs went in order to control the sect's women. Now, in
this courageous memoir, Elissa Wall tells the incredible and
inspirational story of how she emerged from the confines of the
Fundamentalist Church of Latter Day Saints (FLDS) and helped bring
one of America's most notorious criminals to justice. Offering a
child's perspective on life in the FLDS, Wall discusses her
tumultuous youth, and explains how Warren Jeffs's influence over
the church twisted its already rigid beliefs in dangerous new
directions. Once she was married, Wall's childhood shattered as she
was obligated to follow Jeffs's directives and submit to her
husband in "mind, body, and soul." With little money and no
knowledge of the outside world, she was trapped and forced to
endure the pain and abuse of her loveless relationship, which
eventually pushed her to spend nights sleeping in her truck rather
than face the tormentor in her bed.
Charlie's earliest memory at two and a half was listening to his
dad batter his latest girlfriend in their Scottish tenement flat.
Beaten and tortured by a violent alcoholic father in 70s'
poverty-stricken Dundee, Charlie's early life was one of poverty
and misery, but at least he had his best friend Bonnie a German
shepherd puppy to turn to. Charlie lives with Jock, his violent,
disturbed, alcoholic father in a Dundee tenement. Money is scarce,
and Jock's love of vodka means that Charlie bears the brunt of his
abuse. Often too bruised to go to school, Charlie lives in constant
fear of Jock's next outburst. Subjected to hours of physical and
mental torture, Charlie can only think of killing his dad. The only
thing Charlie can rely on is Bonnie, a German Shepherd puppy,
brought home to keep Charlie company while Jock goes out on his
drinking sessions. But even Bonnie doesn't escape Jock's brutality.
Please Don't Hurt Me, Dad is an evocative portrait of seventies and
eighties working-class Dundee, where everyone is on the dole,
alcoholism is rife and most people have illegal jobs on the side.
Somehow Charlie escaped from the everyday struggle for survival.
Bonnie wasn't so lucky. Charlie's way out came in the form of a
beautiful young woman who became the love of his life and his
saviour.
'Get your daughters to read this, but only after your partners and
sons have finished it' Jo Brand 'An astute and persuasive
page-turner' Observer
_____________________________________________________ Too often, we
blame women. For walking home alone at night. For not demanding a
seat at the table. For not overcoming the odds that are stacked
against them. This distracts us from the real problem: the failings
and biases of a society that was not built for women. In this
explosive book, feminist writer and activist Laura Bates exposes
the systemic prejudice at the heart of five of our key
institutions. Education Politics Media Policing Criminal justice
Combining stories with shocking evidence, Fix the System, Not the
Women is a blazing examination of sexual injustice and a rallying
cry for reform. ________________________________________________
'Powerful' Sunday Times 'I am in awe of Laura Bates . . . her
writing is nothing short of perfect' Sofie Hagen, author of Happy
Fat 'A blistering manifesto for change' Dr Pragya Agarwal 'Finish
the book furious - before rallying for the next fight' Grazia
Latest Must-Reads
Rewatching on the Point of the Cinematic Index offers a
reassessment of the cinematic index as it sits at the intersection
of film studies, trauma studies, and adaptation studies. Author
Allen H. Redmon argues that far too often scholars imagine the
cinematic index to be nothing more than an acknowledgment that the
lens-based camera captures and brings to the screen a reality that
existed before the camera. When cinema's indexicality is so
narrowly defined, the entire nature of film is called into question
the moment film no longer relies on a lens-based camera. The
presence of digital technologies seemingly strips cinema of its
indexical standing. This volume pushes for a broader understanding
of the cinematic index by returning to the early discussions of the
index in film studies and the more recent discussions of the index
in other digital arts. Bolstered by the insights these discussions
can offer, the volume looks to replace what might be best deemed a
diminished concept of the cinematic index with a series of more
complex cinematic indices, the impoverished index, the indefinite
index, the intertextual index, and the imaginative index. The
central argument of this book is that these more complex indices
encourage spectators to enter a process of ongoing adaptation of
the reality they see on the screen, and that it is on the point of
these indices that the most significant instances of rewatching
movies occur. Examining such films as John Lee Hancock's Saving Mr.
Banks (2013); Richard Linklater's oeuvre; Paul Greengrass's United
93 (2006); Oliver Stone's World Trade Center (2006); Stephen
Daldry's Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close (2011); and
Christopher Nolan's Dunkirk (2017), Inception (2010), and Memento
(2000), Redmon demonstrates that the cinematic index invites
spectators to enter a process of ongoing adaptation.
All over the world children are faced with social, physical and
emotional turmoil that stems from varying degrees of violence.
Abuse, neglect, abandonment and bereavement often affects these
children and their education. This book highlights the plight of
children and explores multi-sectoral approaches in providing
sustainable psychosocial support. Quality education for vulnerable
children is a top priority and an important discussion is to be had
on how to support these types of students and children. This book
is ideal for researchers, students, teachers, school
administrators, public and private agencies, and anyone else
interested in support and education for neglected, abused, and
vulnerable children.
A dramatic and remarkable narrative of an extraordinary teacher's
determination, from the author of the Sunday Times bestsellers 'The
Tiger's Child' and 'One Child'. Torey Hayden faced six emotionally
troubled kids no other teacher could handle - three recent arrivals
from battle-torn Northern Ireland, badly traumatised by the horrors
of war; an eleven-year-old boy, who only knew life inside an
institution; an excitable girl, aggressive and sexually precocious
at the age of eight; and seven-year-old Leslie, perhaps the most
hopeless of all, unresponsive and unable to speak. But Torey's most
daunting challenge turns out to be Leslie's mother, a stunning
young doctor who soon discovers that she needs Torey's love and
help just as much as the children. 'Just Another Kid' is a
beautiful illustration of nurturing concern, not only for a few
emotionally disturbed children, but for one woman facing a personal
battle.
This beautiful and deeply moving tale recounts educational
psychologist Torey Hayden's battle to unlock the emotions of a
troubled and sexually abused child who, with the help of Hayden,
was finally able to overcome her dark past and realise her full
potential. Six-year-old Sheila was abandoned by her mother on a
highway when she was four. A survivor of horrific abuse, she never
spoke, never cried, and was placed in a class for severely retarded
children after committing an atrocious act of violence against
another child. Everyone thought Sheila was beyond salvation -
except her teacher, Torey Hayden. With patience, skill, and abiding
love, she fought long and hard to release a haunted little girl
from her secret nightmare - and nurture the spark of genius she
recognised trapped within Sheila's silence. This is the remarkable
story of their journey together - an odyssey of hope, courage, and
inspiring devotion that opened the heart and mind of one lost child
to a new world of discovery and joy.
A stunning and poignant account of an extraordinary teacher's
determination from the author of the #1 Sunday Times bestsellers
The Tiger's Child and One Child. Jadie never spoke, never laughed,
never cried. She spent every waking hour locked in her own private
world of shadows. But nothing in Torey Hayden's experience had
prepared her for the nightmare Jadie revealed to her when finally
persuaded to break her self-imposed silence. It was a story too
painful, too horrific for Hayden's professional colleagues to
acknowledge. But Torey Hayden could not close her ears... or her
heart. A little girl was trapped in a living hell of unspeakable
memories. And it would take every ounce of courage, compassion, and
love that one remarkable teacher possessed to rid the "Ghost Girl"
of the malevolent spirits that haunted her.
One of the most famous writers of all time, George Orwell's life
played a huge part in his understanding of the world. A constant
critic of power and authority, the roots of Animal Farm and
Nineteen Eighty-Four began to grow in his formative years as a
pupil at a strict private school in Eastbourne. His essay Such,
Such Were The Joys recounts the ugly realities of the regime to
which pupils were subjected in the name of class prejudice,
hierarchy and imperial destiny. This graphic novel vividly brings
his experiences at school to life. As Orwell earned his place
through scholarship rather than wealth, he was picked on by both
staff and richer students. The violence of his teachers and the
shame he experienced on a daily basis leap from the pages,
conjuring up how this harsh world looked through a child's innocent
eyes while juxtaposing the mature Orwell's ruminations on what such
schooling says about society. Today, as the private school and
class system endure, this is a vivid reminder that the world Orwell
sought to change is still with us.
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