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She invites the reader into her life and into the questions raised by a crime with no obvious solutions or easy answers. We see the dimensions of a human struggle often kept hidden from view. While there are an estimated twelve million rape survivors in the United States, rape is still unspeakable, left out of our personal and cultural conversation. In Telling, Francisco has found a language for the secret grief carried by men and women who have survived rape.
'The most honest, most revealing - and funniest - exploration of
male mental health I have ever read' Adam Kay 'Matt Rudd may have
written the most important book in a generation' Idle Society On
the surface, men today don't have much to complain about. At work,
they still get paid more than women for doing the same jobs. At
home, they still shirk most of the unpaid labour. Putting the bins
out does not count. Beneath the surface, it's a different story. An
alarming number of men end up anxious, exhausted, depressed - and
very reluctant to admit they are. Even if they do everything that's
expected of them in work, life and fatherhood, genuine happiness is
still elusive. By midlife, their levels of stress are higher and
their levels of wellbeing are lower - and work-life balance turns
out to be just a cruel illusion. The evidence is clear and ironic:
the system set up by men for men doesn't work for men either. It is
making none of us happy. In Man Down, Matt Rudd takes the long view
on this perplexing paradox. Drawing on stories from his own life,
and the varied lives of the other men he has interviewed, he goes
back to the beginning to consider what makes the modern man - how
the seeds of midlife misery are sown in the school playground and
cultivated through adolescence and into adulthood. By turns
compassionate and provocative, Man Down asks the important
question: is midlife unhappiness inevitable? Spoiler alert: it
isn't.
In this recognized classic in the field, a world-renowned psychiatrist and bestselling author shares simple meditations for healing through self-discovery, relating genuinely to others, and following ones dreams. His thoughtful advice clears the path for finding recovery and peace. Newly packaged in a convenient, portable format, Finding Your Strength in Difficult Times can provide comfort anywhere at any time. Users can bring it along in a bag or backpack and dip into it throughout the day to find inspiration and motivation, for problems both large and seemingly small. Includes meditations for anger, loneliness, jealousy, and more.
'An electric, warm, comforting and funny handbook on panic and how
to cope and live alongside it' Laura Dockrill, author of What Have
I Done? Award-winning blogger and author Claire Eastham is an
expert on panic. She's not a doctor or an academic, but over a
seven-year period, she has experienced 371 panic attacks (and
counting), and learnt a thing or two along the way. Part memoir,
part guide, How I Learned to Live with Panic is an intimate, honest
and ultimately uplifting exploration into panic attacks. In
practical thematic chapters Claire covers the crisis points where
panic can hit and interviews a host of people - scientists,
professors, dieticians, psychologists and people who struggle with
panic - to anatomise how it can be managed. Frank, funny and
blazing, Claire's story will speak to all those seeking to reclaim
their lives. 'I wish I had this book when I was 18... It's smart,
witty, informative and, importantly, it lets you know that if you
have panic attacks too...you are not alone' Dr Sophie Mort, author
of A Manual For Being Human
Even if you've just been diagnosed with bipolar disorder, it's
likely that you've been living with it for a long time. You've
probably already developed your own ways of coping with recurring
depression, the consequences of manic episodes, and the constant,
uncomfortable feeling that you're at the mercy of your emotions.
Some of these methods may work; others might do more harm than
good. The Dialectical Behavior Therapy Skills Workbook for Bipolar
Disorder will help you integrate your coping skills with a new and
effective dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) plan for living well
with bipolar disorder. The four DBT skills you'll learn in this
workbook-mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotion regulation, and
interpersonal effectiveness-will help you manage your emotional ups
and downs and minimize the frequency and intensity of depressive
and manic episodes. By using this book in conjunction with
medication and professional care, you'll soon experience relief
from your bipolar symptoms and come to enjoy the calm and confident
feeling of being in control. Learn mindfulness and acceptance
skills Cope with depressive and manic episodes in healthy ways
Manage difficult emotions and impulsive urges Maintain
relationships with friends and family members
One moment your school-age son is engaged in a house sale, and
everything is serene on a Sunday afternoon in the suburbs. The next
morning, you awaken to a 6am phone call from a policeman, who tells
you that a childless great-uncle has jumped from the roof, leaving
your phone number for notification purposes. Shortly after that,
you learn that your best friends are getting a divorce, and you
don't know what to tell your children. Midlife brings chaos,
laughter and tears. You find women in their 40's having 'last
chance' babies, and many people changing careers while they still
can. Couples, meanwhile, are fighting about whether to stay
together, and many women who have been home are trying to
jump-start their careers. Boyfriends, girlfriends, and 'last
chance' affairs complicate matters even more. The author takes you
with her on a search for order, trying to find patterns in the
chaos, travelling the routes of the past, examining the lives of
baby-boomer friends, while renewing an earlier commitment to
journalism, which had lapsed during a ten-year stint in the
business world.
"Managing Low Self Esteem" charts Windy Dryden's work in running
brief, structured, educationally-orientated, self-acceptance
groups. The book is based on the principles of Rational Emotive
Behaviour - an approach to counselling and psychotherapy. This
approach has a philosophical position in the self which stresses a
person's uniqueness, humanity, complexity and fallibility. In this
way, it advocates self-acceptance rather than self-esteem. It also
argues that this position can be taught and learned in a short
peiod of time. Through detailed session reviews, the book shows how
unconditional self-acceptance can be taught not only to
psychotherapy clients, but to members of the general public.
Written for those working to heal developmental trauma and seeking
new tools for self-awareness and growth, this book focuses on
conflicts surrounding the capacity for connection. Explaining that
an impaired capacity for connection to self and to others and the
ensuing diminished aliveness are the hidden dimensions that
underlie most psychological and many physiological problems,
clinicians Laurence Heller and Aline LaPierre introduce the
NeuroAffective Relational Model(R)""(NARM), a unified approach to
developmental, attachment, and shock trauma that, while not
ignoring a person's past, emphasizes working in the present moment.
NARM is a somatically based psychotherapy that helps bring into
awareness the parts of self that are disorganized and dysfunctional
without making the regressed, dysfunctional elements the primary
theme of the therapy. It emphasizes a person's strengths,
capacities, resources, and resiliency and is a powerful tool for
working with both nervous system regulation and distortions of
identity such as low self-esteem, shame, and chronic self-judgment.
If these thoughts seem to be permanent fixtures in your mind,
you're in good company. New moms have a lot to be anxious about,
and it's perfectly natural to have some fears during and after
pregnancy. The problem is, anxiety can grow, disrupting your daily
life and keeping you from enjoying motherhood. The Pregnancy and
Postpartum Anxiety Workbook provides proven-effective strategies
drawn from cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) for keeping anxious
thoughts at bay and getting back to the productive and positive
thinking you've been missing.
Through a series of easy exercises and worksheets, you'll learn
skills for relaxing yourself when you feel stressed. You'll also
learn to reduce the frequency and intensity of anxious feelings
many pregnant women and mothers of infants face. The book also
includes a chapter that offers tips to help fathers understand and
support their partners.
"How I wish I'd had this book when I suffered from postpartum
obsessive-compulsive disorder Pregnant and postpartum moms need to
know that perinatal anxiety disorders are common and treatable, and
that there's no need to continue suffering."
-Katherine Stone, editor of Postpartum Progress, the most
widely-read blog on perinatal mood and anxiety disorders, and board
member of Postpartum Support International
"Wiegartz and Gyoerkoe have adapted the powerful and
scientifically proven techniques of cognitive behavioral therapy
into tools that new moms and mothers-to-be can use to overcome the
most common anxiety-related problems and reclaim this special time
of life."
-Jonathan S. Abramowitz, Ph.D., ABPP, professor and director of
the Anxiety and Stress Disorders Clinic at the University of North
Carolina at Chapel Hill
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