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'Invaluable' RACHEL KRAMER BUSSEL 'Refreshingly honest,
comprehensive and realistic' MEG-JOHN BARKER Embarking on a
non-monogamous relationship can be a daunting experience, opening
old wounds that cause anxiety, fear and confusion, something Lola
Phoenix knows about all too well. In this all-you-need-to-know
guide to exploring non-monogamy, polyamory and open relationships,
Lola draws upon their years of experience in giving advice and
being non-monogamous to provide guidance for every stage of your
journey, helping you to prioritise your mental health and well
being along the way. Beginning with advice on starting out - such
as finding your anchor, figuring out your personal reasons for
pursuing non-monogamy, challenging your fears and practicing
self-compassion - the book proceeds to cover the emotional aspects
of non-monogamous relationships, including dealing with jealously
and judgement, managing anxiety and maintaining independence, as
well as practical elements such as scheduling your time,
negotiating boundaries and managing your expectations, all
accompanied with activities for further exploration. Whether you
are new to non-monogamy, or have been non-monogamous for years,
this insightful and empowering book will provide you with the
emotional tools you will need to live a happy non-monogamous life.
The theory has been tested via a randomized controlled trial
Addresses the emotional component of IBS through new research based
on Cognitive Behavioural Therapy Includes two new chapters on
medication and practical tips for patients using the book
This book provides an introduction to mindfulness, the concepts and
theory behind it and how it can help manage not only anxiety, but a
number of physical and emotional issues. It includes step-by-step
practices to manage your anxiety and depression, and links to an
audio download of guided meditations. Topics include: Understanding
anxiety and mindfulness No magic pills How did I get to be like
this? Anxiety and depression in context The stress response
Breaking the cycle Effects of mindfulness on the brain Moving
forwards - take care
Severe anxiety affects a huge number of women in pregnancy and the
postnatal period, making a challenging time even more difficult.
You may be suffering from uncontrollable worries about pregnancy
and birth, distressing intrusive thoughts of accidental or
deliberate harm to the baby, or fears connected to traumatic
experiences. This practical self-help guide provides an active
route out of feeling anxious. Step-by-step, the book teaches you to
apply cognitive behaviour therapy (CBT) techniques in the
particular context of pregnancy and becoming a new parent in order
to overcome maternal anxiety in all its forms. Working through the
book you will gain understanding of your anxiety and how factors
from the past and present may be playing a role in how you feel.
Together with practical exercises and worksheets to move through at
your own pace, you will gain the tools you need to help you move
forward and enjoy parenthood.
One might think working as a physician would lead to disrespect for
the human body. After all, most of the bodies we see are broken or
malfunctioning in some way. In my case, however, the opposite is
true. My practice as a pain specialist (particularly chronic pain)
has drawn me into areas beyond the usual options for medical
treatment. In the process, that has led to a fascination with the
human brain and its myriad properties. I think it's safe to say
that most of us take our brains for granted. If we think about them
at all, it's in terms of comparative mental accomplishment (in our
prime of life) or dysfunction (beyond our prime). Rarely do we
stand in awe of all that this eight-pound organ does for us. With
this book, I'm hoping to do my part to change that. The focus is on
the brain's relationship with pain, but discussing that opens a
door to broader considerations. Meanwhile, the potential readership
is literally universal -- all of us have brains, and almost all of
us (except for those with a rare condition described in the book)
have felt pain. What most of us may not realize is that research
into the causes of pain began thousands of years ago. The ancient
Egyptians pondered the question, and Greek philosophers such as
Aristotle, Plato, and Galen made it an important part of their
overall philosophies. Hippocrates was laying the foundation for
modern brain and pain study as early as the late fifth century and
other scientific icons, such as Rene Descartes and Charles
Sherrington, built on what he had discovered and postulated. By the
20th century, some new revelation about pain and its possible
treatment was being reported in the scientific journals nearly
every month. That has only accelerated over the past few years,
which makes the study of the brain and pain one of the livelier
medical specialties. Meanwhile, there has been a significant change
in the attitude toward pain by 20th century physicians, researchers
and hospital personnel. Previously, pain was simply linked to
whatever condition might be afflicting a patient, leading to the
belief that when that condition was cured or managed, the pain
would automatically disappear. Now, though, it has become apparent
that pain might be more than just a symptom. In some cases, it
becomes a condition all to itself. Since pain is literally a
product of the brain, which announces it after being warned by a
small army of nocioceptors stationed throughout the body, it is
also open to glitches in that process. Chronic pain often occurs
when the brain "remembers" pain, even though the condition that
caused it may have been dealt with. This book has a clinical core,
but I have broadened the scope to include not only research history
but touch on several peripheral issuers involving pain. That
includes a chapter on masochism and congenital insensitivity to
pain, another on the opioid epidemic.
Annie Skinner explores the challenges and obstacles faced by
children who were removed from their families by the state in the
nineteenth century. The children in this study were rescued from
neglected, abusive or dangerous situations and committed to care,
but in the process were criminalized and incarcerated in industrial
schools until they turned sixteen. Using letters from the children,
their parents and correspondence from the authorities, the author
focuses on the children's experiences of their removal. We hear
first-hand how children growing up in a controlled environment
learnt how to navigate their way through the tough regimes of the
institutions and resisted authority. The author shows how attitudes
towards children in care were dominated by the belief that removing
contact with their parents was essential in order to avoid
repeating a negative history. A wholly new life was needed for a
healthy and secure social development. At the heart of this new
life was a future in domestic service. However, here children also
faced stigma from employers and authorities. Skinner positions the
voice of the child at the forefront of her study by offering close
readings of children's letters, taken from source. And so she
allows us to see the impact of such policies on lives, as well as
their isolation as a result of removal and their search for
identity.
“Groundbreaking research . . . Women Who Think Too Much tells why overthinking occurs, why it hurts people, and how to stop.” —USA Today
It’s no surprise that our fast-paced, overly self-analytical culture is pushing many people—especially women—to spend countless hours thinking about negative ideas, feelings, and experiences. Renowned psychologist Dr. Susan Nolen-Hoeksema calls this overthinking, and her groundbreaking research shows that an increasing number of women—more than half of those in her extensive study—are doing it too much and too often, leading to sadness, anxiety, and depression. She challenges the assumption—heralded by so many pop-psychology pundits of the last several decades—that constantly expressing and analyzing our emotions is a good thing.
In Women Who Think Too Much, Nolen-Hoeksema shows us what causes so many women to be overthinkers and provides concrete strategies that can be used to escape these negative thoughts, move to higher ground, and live more productively. Women Who Think Too Much will change lives, and is destined to become a self-help classic.
From the man dubbed the 'Sleep Whisperer' comes a brand-new
approach to fixing your sleep, once and for all. Challenging the
reader to take control and to stop hiding behind excuses for a bad
night's sleep, neurologist W. Chris Winter explains the basic,
often-counterintuitive rules of sleep science. Dr Winter explores
revolutionary findings, including surprising solutions for insomnia
and other sleep disturbances, empowering readers to stop taking
sleeping pills and enjoy the best sleep of their lives. Written in
a clear and entertaining way, The Sleep Solution contains tips,
tricks, exercises, and illustrations throughout. Dr Winter is an
international expert on sleep and has helped thousands of patients
- including professional athletes - rest better at night. Now, he's
ready to help you.
"Luminous Mind" is the definitive mental fitness manual, offering
unique and uncomplicated ways to engage fully in life. Included in
the book are techniques for meditation, focus, and relaxation that
have helped Olympic athletes, members of the armed forces, and many
others.
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