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Parents, teachers, friends, and even many clinicians are both
horrified and mystified upon discovering teenagers who
intentionally cut, burn, and otherwise inflict pain upon
themselves. Often causing permanent and extensive scarring, as well
as infections, cutting is increasingly prevalent among today's
youth. As many as 1 in 100 adolescents report cutting themselves,
representing a growing epidemic of scarred and tormented youths, as
we see in this revealing work. As author Plante discusses here, the
threat of suicide must always be carefully evaluated, although the
majority of cutters are not in fact suicidal. Instead, cutting
represents a growing teenage method for easing emotional pain and
suffering. Bleeding from self-inflicted wounds not only helps to
numb and vent the despair, it can also be a dramatic means of
communicating, controlling, and asking for help from others.
Parents, teachers, friends, and even many clinicians are both
horrified and mystified upon discovering teenagers who
intentionally cut, burn, and otherwise inflict pain on themselves.
Often causing permanent and extensive scarring, as well as
infections, cutting is increasingly prevalent among today's youth.
As many as 1 in 100 adolescents report cutting themselves,
representing a growing epidemic of scarred and tormented youth, as
we see in this revealing work. Author Plante explains the threat of
suicide must always be carefully evaluated, although the vast
majority of cutters are not in fact suicidal. Instead, cutting
represents a growing teenage method for easing emotional pain and
suffering. Bleeding from self-inflicted wounds not only helps to
numb and vent despair, it can also be a dramatic means of
communicating, controlling, and asking for help from others. In
this book, Plante features the stories of self-injurers and helps
the reader understand the meaning of the injuries, and how to help
teens stop. This author, who is a psychologist, a parent, and a
Stanford University Medical School faculty member, explains in
clear detail how cutters and the adults who love them can heal the
pain and stop self-injury. Plante describes the frightening
developmental tasks teenagers and young adults face, and how the
central challenges of the three I's (Independence, Intimacy, and
Identity) compel them to cope through self-destructive acts.
Readers will feel as if they are in the therapy room with Plante
and these struggling teenagers as they seek to overcome their
internal pain and that desperate need to cut and self-injure.
An insatiable need for sex and love. Periods of overeating or
starving. A pattern of unstable and painful relationships. Does
this sound painfully familiar? Trauma counselor Kelly McDaniel has
seen these traits over and over in clients who feel trapped in
cycles of harmful behaviors-and are unable to stop. Many of us find
ourselves stuck in unhealthy habits simply because we don't see a
better way. With Mother Hunger, McDaniel helps women break the
cycle of destructive behavior by taking a fresh look at childhood
trauma and its lasting impact. In doing so, she destigmatizes the
shame that comes with being under-mothered and misdiagnosed.
McDaniel offers a healing path with powerful tools that include
therapeutic interventions and lifestyle changes in service to
healthy relationships. The constant search for mother love can be a
lifelong emotional burden, but healing begins with knowing and
naming what we are missing. McDaniel is the first clinician to
identify Mother Hunger, which demystifies the search for love and
provides the compass that each woman needs to end the struggle with
achy, lonely emptiness, and come home to herself.
There are lots of ways to start a story, but this one begins with a chicken.
When the world becomes overwhelming, Ella Risbridger focuses on the little things that bring her joy, like enjoying a glass of wine when cooking, FaceTiming with a friend whilst making bagels, and sharing recipes that are good for the soul. One night she found herself lying on her kitchen floor, wondering if she would ever get up - and it was the thought of a chicken, of roasting it, and of eating it, that got her to her feet and made her want to be alive.
Midnight Chicken is a cookbook. Or, at least, you'll flick through these pages and find recipes so inviting that you will head straight for the kitchen: roast garlic and tomato soup, uplifting chilli-lemon spaghetti, charred leek lasagne, squash skillet pie, spicy fish finger sandwiches and burnt-butter brownies. It's the kind of cooking you can do a little bit drunk, that is probably better if you've got a bottle of wine open and a hunk of bread to mop up the sauce. But if you settle down and read it with a cup of tea (or a glass of that wine), you'll also discover that it's an annotated list of things worth living for - a manifesto of moments worth living for. This is a cookbook to make you fall in love with the world again.
Featuring an entire chapter on storecupboard recipes.
"Dr Kaye is the mate who's always got your back, she knows her
stuff and tells you exactly how it is" SARA COX The complete
one-stop guide to the perimenopause and menopause, by Dr Philippa
Kaye, with a foreword by Vanessa Feltz Menopause is the last taboo.
But it does not have to mean the end of your libido, of sex, of
work, or of feeling like who you used to be. With modern treatments
and evidence-based knowledge, no woman need suffer or "just about"
manage. You are still who you are - let's celebrate that. Let's get
informed and get empowered to make our own choices about our
symptoms, our treatments, our minds and our bodies. The M Word
covers everything from understanding symptoms to managing
relationships to which treatments really work. Discussing HRT as
well as self-help and lifestyle tips, this fully updated edition of
the bestselling book will be your companion through the years
before, during and after the menopause. Topics covered include: Hot
flushes and other physical symptoms Psychological symptoms Sex,
libido and contraception HRT and other treatments Lifestyle changes
Health after the menopause And much more! Written in a positive,
uplifting and light-hearted style, with plenty of quotes from real
women, this book shows you how to not just survive, but thrive
through the menopause, letting you remain you.
What Every Woman Should Know, Domestic Violence Handbook is reader
friendly and contains information about the various forms of
domestic violence, actual stories depicting each situation and a
directory listing almost 2000 domestic violence shelters. This
informative book helps women understand the dangerous situations
they find themselves in, as well as help them find a way out.
Topics covered include emotional abuse, isolation, verbal abuse,
financial control, effects of abuse on children, safety plans, and
profile of a batterer. Domestic violence is prevalent in today's
society. Battered women are in all walks of life, at the
supermarket, the movie theater, Church, school and work. She is
your neighbor, friend, associate, sister, mother, daughter, perhaps
even you. Statistics show that nearly everyone in America is either
currently a victim of abuse, survivor of abuse or knows someone who
is. You probably know someone who needs the information provided in
this book.
A powerful, personal exploration of anxiety, ADHD and neurodiversity, Normally Weird and Weirdly Normal reminds us all – no matter how weird we feel – that it’s okay to be a little different. We all are.
What if being a bit weird is actually entirely normal? What if sharing our internal struggles wasn’t a sign of weakness, but strength?
For over thirty years, award-winning broadcaster and comedian Robin Ince has entertained thousands in person and on air. But underneath the surface, a whirlwind was at play – a struggle with sadness, concentration, self-doubt and near-constant anxiety. But then he discovered he had all the hallmarks of ADHD and his stumbling blocks became stepping stones.
In Normally Weird and Weirdly Normal, Robin uses his own experiences to explore the neurodivergent experience and to ask what the point of “being normal” really is. Packed with personal insights, intimate anecdotes and interviews with psychologists, neuroscientists and many neurodivergent people he has met along the way, this is a quirky and witty dive into the world of human behaviour.
The foundational and wildly popular go-to resource for influence
and persuasion-a renowned international bestseller, with over 5
million copies sold-now revised adding: new research, new insights,
new examples, and online applications. In the new edition of this
highly acclaimed bestseller, Robert Cialdini-New York Times
bestselling author of Pre-Suasion and the seminal expert in the
fields of influence and persuasion-explains the psychology of why
people say yes and how to apply these insights ethically in
business and everyday settings. Using memorable stories and
relatable examples, Cialdini makes this crucially important subject
surprisingly easy. With Cialdini as a guide, you don't have to be a
scientist to learn how to use this science. You'll learn Cialdini's
Universal Principles of Influence, including new research and new
uses so you can become an even more skilled persuader-and just as
importantly, you'll learn how to defend yourself against unethical
influence attempts. You may think you know these principles, but
without understanding their intricacies, you may be ceding their
power to someone else. Cialdini's Principles of Persuasion:
Reciprocation Commitment and Consistency Social Proof Liking
Authority Scarcity Unity, the newest principle for this edition
Understanding and applying the principles ethically is cost-free
and deceptively easy. Backed by Dr. Cialdini's 35 years of
evidence-based, peer-reviewed scientific research-including a
three-year field study on what leads people to change-Influence is
a comprehensive guide to using these principles to move others in
your direction.
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