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Books > Health, Home & Family > Family & health > Coping with personal problems > General
Parents, teachers, friends, and even many clinicians are both
horrified and mystified upon discovering teenagers who
intentionally cut, burn, and otherwise inflict pain upon
themselves. Often causing permanent and extensive scarring, as well
as infections, cutting is increasingly prevalent among today's
youth. As many as 1 in 100 adolescents report cutting themselves,
representing a growing epidemic of scarred and tormented youths, as
we see in this revealing work. As author Plante discusses here, the
threat of suicide must always be carefully evaluated, although the
majority of cutters are not in fact suicidal. Instead, cutting
represents a growing teenage method for easing emotional pain and
suffering. Bleeding from self-inflicted wounds not only helps to
numb and vent the despair, it can also be a dramatic means of
communicating, controlling, and asking for help from others.
Parents, teachers, friends, and even many clinicians are both
horrified and mystified upon discovering teenagers who
intentionally cut, burn, and otherwise inflict pain on themselves.
Often causing permanent and extensive scarring, as well as
infections, cutting is increasingly prevalent among today's youth.
As many as 1 in 100 adolescents report cutting themselves,
representing a growing epidemic of scarred and tormented youth, as
we see in this revealing work. Author Plante explains the threat of
suicide must always be carefully evaluated, although the vast
majority of cutters are not in fact suicidal. Instead, cutting
represents a growing teenage method for easing emotional pain and
suffering. Bleeding from self-inflicted wounds not only helps to
numb and vent despair, it can also be a dramatic means of
communicating, controlling, and asking for help from others. In
this book, Plante features the stories of self-injurers and helps
the reader understand the meaning of the injuries, and how to help
teens stop. This author, who is a psychologist, a parent, and a
Stanford University Medical School faculty member, explains in
clear detail how cutters and the adults who love them can heal the
pain and stop self-injury. Plante describes the frightening
developmental tasks teenagers and young adults face, and how the
central challenges of the three I's (Independence, Intimacy, and
Identity) compel them to cope through self-destructive acts.
Readers will feel as if they are in the therapy room with Plante
and these struggling teenagers as they seek to overcome their
internal pain and that desperate need to cut and self-injure.
What Every Woman Should Know, Domestic Violence Handbook is reader
friendly and contains information about the various forms of
domestic violence, actual stories depicting each situation and a
directory listing almost 2000 domestic violence shelters. This
informative book helps women understand the dangerous situations
they find themselves in, as well as help them find a way out.
Topics covered include emotional abuse, isolation, verbal abuse,
financial control, effects of abuse on children, safety plans, and
profile of a batterer. Domestic violence is prevalent in today's
society. Battered women are in all walks of life, at the
supermarket, the movie theater, Church, school and work. She is
your neighbor, friend, associate, sister, mother, daughter, perhaps
even you. Statistics show that nearly everyone in America is either
currently a victim of abuse, survivor of abuse or knows someone who
is. You probably know someone who needs the information provided in
this book.
This book addresses the dying process and the nature of death
itself with the intention that it might help us to accept and
embrace both these things as a part of life. Intended to provide a
shift in perception, this book aims to alleviate some of the fear,
resistance and denial surrounding death. Much has been written
about death by spiritual teachers, psychologists, philosophers and
palliative specialists, but this book is an entry into the
conversation from a viewpoint that is not medical, religious, nor
postulating any form of belief system. It is partly a survey of our
attitude and resistance to dying and death, and partly an
examination of the options available that could serve as a
non-denominational enquiry into this unavoidable eventuality. The
principle belief is that the tools required for this shift in
perception are to be found within us - we already possess what we
need that would allow us to drop the heavy weight of fear and
anxiety. This book will help the reader to find these tools,
guiding the reader towards their own, most direct route, and
focuses on the validity of individual experience.
According to the American Psychological Association, today's
children and teenagers are anxious about many things. In addition
to the stressors common to any generation--family issues, financial
instability, pressure to perform in school or sports--these young
people also worry about gun violence, social justice, the state of
their divided nation, the fate of a warming planet, and much more.
To top it off, recent global events and resulting restrictions have
added significant stress even as they have stripped away support
systems. For parents, teachers, counselors, and youth leaders
longing to understand and help the young people in their lives,
When Anxiety Roars unpacks the biological, psychological, social,
and spiritual factors that influence anxiety in children and offers
specific practical steps to take together to tame that anxiety.
Integrating faith with best practices to reduce anxiety, it also
teaches coping skills that will help children live more confidently
today and into the future.
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